Author: jakedavis1910

Daily Attitude Email 10 12 20

Control.

It seems to me that one of the odd paradoxes of life is our ability to control nothing and everything at the same time.

We have no control over all the external things in our lives, yet we have complete control over ourselves and our attitude and this attitude is what attracts and brings about the external environment we desire.

I suppose that life is a balancing act between mastery of our own mind and letting the rest of life happen.

Below is a list of “to let go’s” that I found when searching for a topic for today. Maybe one of them will inspire you to let go of something that is holding you back.

Make it a great week.

Jake

To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can’t do it for someone else.

To let go is not to cut myself off, it’s the realization that I can’t control another.

To let go is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To let go is not to try to change or blame another, it’s to make the most of myself.

To let go is not to care for, but to care about.

To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To let go is not to be protective, it’s to permit another to face reality.

To let go is not to criticize, or regulate anyone, but to try to become what I dream I can do.

To let go is to fear less, and to love more.

Friday Morning Toe Tapper

Hi! This is Meaghan stepping in for Jake with today’s Toe Tapper.

I have a quick story to go with this CCR song. It had been running through my head, and then one day last week I took a photo of our oldest daughter running around a bend in the cross-country course at Maxwell Park. At the time, the two did not relate, but when I looked at the picture later, it seemed to illustrate the chorus of this song. Her feet were flying, and we were outside on a gorgeous fall day. Have you ever had something like that happen where random things in your mind just click, and it lifts your spirits? I do not think these moments are merely coincidental. The image of Maggie running around the bend and ready to kick things into high gear, when things often seem to be at a standstill in the world lately, really stuck with me this week. I think we can take these little happy moments and let them remind us that there is so much good in this beautiful world. Even when we are on a path that seems a little unpredictable, we can keep going and press on toward the goal set before us. One step at a time. Do the next right thing. Things in our country and our world, and even in our own little lives, can be frustrating and bring us down, but we can always look around the bend. One foot in front of the other. There are still good times ahead, people to see, love to share. Keep on running your race, whatever that may look like. If you need help, remember to say a little prayer and talk to someone who cares. There’s always time for good conversation! I would also recommend getting outside to enjoy the trees and the breeze; you can walk and just imagine what it would be like to have as much energy as a cross country runner! Maybe this song running through your heart will put a little pep in your step, too.

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Up Around The Bend With lyrics. Please note that this song is not mine, It is CCR’s the picture is not mine either. Again, the song and picture are not mine. l

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Daily Attitude Email 10 08 20

The days are long but the years are short.

Not sure who this quote belongs to, but it is one I think of often.

It’s been a few long days for me already this week.

When that happens it is easy to lose perspective on the long term and the big picture.

We fixate on getting through the day and miss out on life.

Take the time to enjoy your day today, regardless of how long it is.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 10 07 20

Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future.

Apparently this is on a billboard in Dallas.

Funny how sometimes a simple one sentence billboard can have so much to say.

Regardless of what you did yesterday, today can be a better day.

Cheated on your diet? Today it begins again.

Took a shortcut on something at work? Today is your second chance.

A little short with the kids? Today can be a day of peaceful patience.

Blew your budget on that whiz-bang new thingamagig? Today can be a day to rethink and rebuild that budget.

Regardless of your past, you do, in fact, have a future. How bright that future is depends on you.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 10 06 20

Love grows more tremendously full, swift, poignant, as the years multiply. – Zane Grey

Not sure if I’m just getting sappier as I get older or not, but I think about love a lot as I’ve aged.

When I look at the problems the world faces, I think of love.

When I see someone hurting, I think of love.

When I really look at the people around, I think of love.

When I’m the best version of me, it’s because I was doing my best to show love.

So many of us spend our days searching and grabbing at everything, hoping for love.

I’ve tried to turn that internal drive in myself into a drive to love others, just as God made them, not how I’d like them to be.

I fail. A lot. Selfish thoughts and ambitions creep in. My own feelings and desires win the day.

But, I’m getting better. It’s worth it.

I hope that you can show more love today. The world will be a better place for it. And so will you.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 10 05 20

Personally I’m always ready to learn, although I do not always like being taught. – Winston Churchill

Leave it to good old Winston to give us this little quip to show our natural human tendency.

We’re eager to learn and want to grow and struggle all the same because we don’t like being taught or being told what to do.

Humility is step one to growth.

We don’t growth without accepting that there is room for growth.

Life is full of opportunities to learn and grow.

Each day is filled with them.

We get to choose our attitude and openness towards those opportunities.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 09 30 20

“Remember that the happiest people are not those getting more, but those giving more.” – H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

I’d also like to add the quote of “The Lord loves a cheerful giver.”

For some reason, the way things work on this planet is that the more you give, the better off you are.

To me, this falls into the “gravity” category – it just is.

We could think really hard about why or how it might be different, but that doesn’t do us any good.

Giving does us good.

Choosing to ignore this or to try and put your needs first, just doesn’t work.

There’s no way around it.

So, what to do?

Get on with the giving.

The more the better.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 09 29 20

Happiness is the natural flower of duty. – Phillips Brooks

One of life’s many two sided coins is that happiness depends on discipline.

We can’t flourish and succeed without striving and effort.

We can’t make progress without continual difficulty.

Finding joy and contentment in the difficulties of life isn’t the norm.

Most of us spend much of our time working towards our own comfort.

We take the easy route – with our money, exercise, relationships, etc.

Only we work diligently to discharge our duties do we actually succeed.

What in your life requires more discipline?

How could you get started on something small?

How could take on something big?

Make it a great day.

Jake