Author: jakedavis1910

Daily Attitude Email 07 10 25

Below is a list of grade school kids answers to the question – “What does love mean?”

I send a lot of these emails with the theme of “love is the answer’ and I think the answers below show how to put that into practice.

The list is both funny and sweet, but the main themes are basic things like kindness, humility and putting the other person first.

Find some way to show love today. Take an idea from the list and make it fit for someone important to you today.

Make it a great day.

Jake

“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.” Rebecca- age 8

“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.” Billy – age 4

“Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.” Karl – age 5

“Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.” Chrissy – age 6

“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.” Terri – age 4

“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.” Danny – age 7

“Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss” Emily – age 8

“Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.” Bobby – age 7 (Wow!)

“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,” Nikka – age 6

(we need a few million more Nikka’s on this planet)

“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.” Noelle – age 7

“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.” Tommy – age 6

“During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.” Cindy – age 8

“My mommy loves me more than anybody . You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.” Clare – age 6

“Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.” Elaine-age 5

“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.” Chris – age 7

“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.” Mary Ann – age 4

“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” Lauren – age 4

“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” (what an image) Karen – age 7

“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.” Mark – age 6

“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.” Jessica – age 8

And the final one — Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child. The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, “Nothing, I just helped him cry”

Daily Attitude Email 07 09 25

We must build dikes of courage to hold back the flood of fear. – Martin Luther King, Jr.

There’s a lot to be afraid of. Life is full of dangers.

I like this mental picture – build dikes of courage to hold back the flood of fear.

If we let it, fear will overwhelm us and stop us from doing and becoming what we were meant to.

Instead we can use the solid, unchanging parts of our lives to build dikes to hold back the fear.

Focusing on our loved ones, our faith and the other blessings of life allow us to have the courage to move forward despite the fear.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 07 08 25

Rule 2: Take care of yourself, the way you would take care of someone else. – Jordan Peterson from “The 12 Rules for Life”.

Imagine if there was some crazy new system where you were actually in charge of someone else’s life.

You got to choose how they spent their time, what they ate, whether they exercised, their inner monologue, all of it.

How would treat that person?

What would do to make sure that person was happy?

Now imagine you loved that person. That you would do anything to make them happy. Not happy like the commercials say we should be. But full of joy.

That person is you.

You are supposed to take care of yourself. Jim Rohn calls it “enlightened self interest”. You take care of yourself so that you can make the greatest impact.

You are worth it.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 07 07 25

The return we reap from generous actions is not always evident. – Francesco Guicciardini

The Bible says it is better to give than receive.

Generosity is good for us. Even better than receiving.

But it’s not always immediately evident or obvious.

But it’s the way it works.

Find a way to be generous today.

Reminder – it’s not about money or stuff – it’s a heart thing.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 07 03 25

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The more you think about yourself, the more miserable you are.

Some good points from Jordan Peterson in this short video.

The quote above is such a good one to remember – it’s not about you! (or me, or them or whoever)

And the second point I liked was the idea that we want to know the answer to the question – Does somebody like me?

So many of us fall victim to negative self talk. Some to the point of believing that nobody likes/cares for us. It’s just not true. You are liked, cared for and loved. I guarantee it.

There are probably a lot people who like, care for and love you. Most importantly though – your Father in Heaven liked, cared for and loved you so much He sent His son to die on the cross for you – just so that you’d have the chance to spend eternity in Heaven with Him.

Make it a great day.

Jake

PS – Just because God loves you and a few others do – it doesn’t give you license to go around being a selfish jerk. In fact – knowing this should be the reason you immediately stop being a selfish jerk and start loving those around you (us). Because they should know it and feel it too.

Daily Attitude Email 07 01 25

Order and simplification are the first steps toward the mastery of a subject. – Thomas Mann

It seems to me that a lot of the brilliant minds of the past have mastered their respective field to such a level that they were able to organize it into ordered and simplified parts.

The chances of me mastering physics to the same degree as Einstein are pretty much zero.

But my (and your) possibilities for doing this in the major areas of life seems possible.

Not in a “figured it out for good” kind of way, but in a “I’m pretty sure I know what I should do today” kind of way.

Simplified and ordering our priorities in life can provide a much needed path towards better.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 06 30 25

We aim above the mark to hit the mark. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Last day of the first half of the year. Time to check in on those goals.

Where are you at?

Ahead of pace or behind the pace.

Time to adjust or to pour it on?

The key is spending the few minutes to honestly review where you are.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Friday Morning Toe Tapper

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Summer time. The days have been long and hot this week.

The weather is a great reminder of (at least) two things.

First – we are not in control. We don’t get to pick warm or cold, rainy or sunny.

Second – we get to choose our attitude. Is it too hot to do anything. Too rainy to go outside. Or is it a great day to go the pool or stay inside and read a book.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 06 26 25

In Earl Nightingale’s “Direct Line” he explains how to increase our income.

He explains that other people are in possession of all the income we want, we must simply find a way to earn it.

After listening to this for the 10th+ time, a light bulb went off for me (I’m a little slow). The same rule applies to a lot of the other areas of life where we are looking for something that others have.

Whether it be love, friendship, knowledge, companionship, respect….we must earn it.

And like money, when we don’t first earn it, it doesn’t stay around long.

We have all heard the stories of the lottery winner or professional athlete that has lost their millions and now is filing bankruptcy.

The same is true elsewhere. If we want something of value, we must earn it. Otherwise it probably won’t be around for long.

Is there something in your life you have been looking for that you haven’t earned yet?

What step can you take today to start earning that which you desire?

Make it a great day.

Jake