Author: jakedavis1910

Daily Attitude Email 05 10 18

I one heard a TED talk by Rick Warren and he mentioned something I found interesting.

He was talking about the idea that he believes that we as human beings have some obligation to leave this planet better than we left it. He mentioned having a conversation with someone once and asking them if they believe that we have this obligation.

The person responded with something like "no more obligation than a duck or any other animal".

Rick’s response really stuck with me.

He said "You are not a duck".

Think about that for a second. If you believe that human beings are not ducks, but that we are something different and unique then we have the obligation of stewardship that Rick talks about.

We are all given something to be stewards over during our lives. At the very least, we are stewards of our own time and lives.

And since we are not ducks, we must use them wisely. How we spend our days and our lives does matter.

Make today count.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 05 09 18

“Isn’t it funny how day by day nothing changes, but when you look back, everything is different…” – “Prince Caspian” (1951) – CS Lewis

Something I’ve read over and over is the idea that we underestimate how much we can do in the long run while overestimating what we can do in the short run.

Small, incremental changes in a consistent direction lead to extraordinary results.

Over booking ourselves while trying to do everything leads to stress and mediocre results.

We must make room for the important stuff and let go of the trivial.

I’m sure you already know all of this.

I’m sure something popped into your head as you thought about it.

Take a small action towards that something, today.

Don’t wait until tomorrow.

Get started.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 05 07 18

Silence is the sleep that nourishes wisdom. – Francis Bacon

Our mind needs rest in the same way our bodies do.

Find some silent time this week.

Even if it is just 60 seconds in the car before heading in to the office or 5 minutes before bed.

Let all the noise and distractions fall away.

Just enjoy the quiet.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 05 03 18

“In my experience there is no such thing as luck.” – Obi-Wan Kenobi

Tomorrow is May the 4th. Apparently it is a thing now to celebrate the Star Wars series on this day/week every year (May the 4th/force be with you).

Coincidentally, we’ve been watching the series with the girls at home.

Like most good movies or TV, the creators use a dramatic and creative back drop to tell the stories and share in common human experiences.

Love, joy, hate, fear, friendship and others are on display throughout the movies.

We enjoy watching these unfold because we want to feel that connection with others and with the characters.

TV and movies can be a great way to connect with others around some of these common themes.

Make some time to connect with the loved ones in your life around some positively themed movies and TV. Talk about the lessons and the commonalities you might be experiencing. Bridge the gap between the two (or more) of you. And then build on that connection.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 05 01 18

People change and forget to tell each other. Lillian Hellman

This falls more into the “helpful reminder” category today.

Once I read that all of the cells in your body change over a certain period of time. You are literally entirely new on a regular basis.

But we forget to communicate through these changes with those closest to us.

We’re surprised when they react as if they didn’t know we had changed our position or attitude towards something.

And we forget that they are entirely new as well and that their position or attitude has changed as well.

I haven’t found a magical tip or trick on this one, just a mountain to continue to climb – because meaningful relationships are worth it.

Slow down for a few minutes today and let someone you care about tell you how they’ve changed.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 04 30 18

You can’t wait for inspiration. You have to go after it with a club. – Jack London

Jim Rohn talks about discipline being the ultimate virtue, as it unlocks so many other opportunities.

This quote is a reminder that we can’t wait around for life to come and inspire and motivate us. We can’t wait for the brilliant idea or perfect opportunity.

I think Jim Rohn was talking about this very idea when he described discipline as the most important virtue.

Only when we have the discipline to continually pursue growth and change do we get the inspiration we desired at the beginning.

We fall into the trap of thinking that when the inspiration comes along we will have the motivation to develop the discipline.

It’s just not true.

The time to start developing discipline is today.

Begin with something small.

Drink water instead of something sugary.

Skip the drive through for coffee and save the money and brew your own.

Pick up the dirty clothes on the floor instead of waiting for your spouse to do it.

Make the bed.

Come into Jake’s office and do a few push ups.

Get started.

Make it a great day.

Jake