JD – Gee whiz, dad. – Wally and Beaver Cleaver

JW – I’d much rather go to my grave never needing my gun, than go there wishing I’d had it. – Phil Dalmolin

MS – You know how it is. – Wally Cleaver

EB – Hey, Jamie. Why don’t you go dry out? – Mike Somers/Wally Cleaver

The Davis kids have been watching “Leave It To Beaver” on Netflix lately and that is one of Mike’s favorites too so we have been trading some of the classic lines around the office.

Watching an old show like that, you are immediately struck by all the things that have changed AND the things that haven’t changed at all.

You notice the old clothes, cars, bikes, mannerisms, etc.

You notice the fathers and sons, husbands and wives all working through a lot of the same problems and challenges we face still today.

It’s a great reminder of those things that really last; those things that really matter.

Who cares about the clothes and cars and stuff, focus on the relationships and integrity and honor.

Sometimes it’s easier to see the big picture through the lens of time like this.

If you are struggling with something or an area of your life, maybe it’s a good time to find something old on the subject and read it.

Or maybe an old TV show….

Make it a great day.

Jake

Success is looking for a good place to stay. – Jim Rohn

The Jim Rohn video from yesterday lead me to another and this little phrase from the next one caught my ear.

Imagine if you will “Success” as a person (I imagine someone walking around with a big “S” on a plain t-shirt) just walking around looking for a good place to stay.

It wonders around all day and night, but most people are too busy, too self-centered, too worried and preoccupied to even notice.

It moves along until it finds a good place to stay. Until it finds a home where it is comfortable.

I imagine the dramatic movie version to go kind of like this:

They start with someone working hard on self-improvement – exercising, reading, budgeting, serving, etc. Nobody really notices.

All the while “Success” is wandering the streets, getting turned away at every door.

Then finally, “Success” bumps into the hero of our story. He/she lets “Success” in. “Success” gets comfortable (I imagine scenes with “Success” in the bathtub, on the couch, napping, etc.) and things start happening.

That idea our hero had starts to take off.

The kids and wife come along and flourish.

The money and responsibility come in, but our hero doesn’t buckle under the pressure.

Some of the hero’s friends and family come over and run away immediately when they see “Success” has moved in.

Some of the hero’s friends and family come over and are fascinated with “Success” and begin to ask questions about why “Success” hasn’t come to their house. Some learn and get the visit. Some don’t and don’t.

Imagine yourself in this movie.

First, who plays you?

Second, which part do you play?

Make it a great day.

Jake

Yesterday was the first official day of summer. It reminded me of this email I had sent out previously:

Today’s email is the third in the Jim Rohn season series:

Somehow a part of me was wishing the summer one was some version of “goof off all day and take it easy”, but apparently that wasn’t in the Jim Rohn philosophy anywhere.

First, Jim says you need to learn how to nourish and protect your crops all summer. The noxious weeds and bugs will take it, if you don’t prevent it.

Jim goes on to talk about how there are two major things to know:

All good will be attacked

All values must be defended

Every garden must be tended all summer.

Here are just a few of the things in my life that I think of when I hear Jim talk about protecting the garden:

· My marriage. I need to be diligent about making sure I give my marriage the attention and respect it deserves. I have a wonderful marriage to an unbelievable woman and that deserves constant vigilance to make sure it stays that way.

· My kids. I need to be aware of what I am doing every day that will have long term impacts on the two little ones that are looking up to their dad every day.

· My relationship with God. I need to spend time daily studying the Bible and praying.

· Mavidea. We have an awesome culture and have the best place to work in the entire world. And we need to keep it that way. Anything less is unacceptable.

· My attitude. I need to make sure that I don’t associate with negative people. I need to guard my words and deeds carefully so that I am being positive and being the example that I would like to be for others.

Jim ends by saying “If you never develop this skill you will never end up with anything of value.” I think this is the part that drives the point home. If you can’t figure out how to tend to the gardens in your life, you will end up with nothing.

You may have a great relationship in the short term.

You may have money for short periods.

You may find happiness in short intervals.

But in order to have all of those things (and more) in the long run, you must learn to protect and nurture that which is valuable to you. You must spend time cultivating those things of value.

Take a minute to think about what is valuable in your life and whether or not you are doing a good job of gardening. If not, get to work.

Make it a great day.

Jake

https://youtu.be/_WamkRSDeD8

Sunday is Father’s Day. This song also reminds me of one of my favorite father son moments from one of Will Smith’s movies:

https://youtu.be/UZb2NOHPA2A

What a great reminder of the role our fathers have played in our lives.

If you can, tell your dad thanks this weekend.

If you can’t, tell another dad that is important to you thanks.

Make it a great day.

Jake

The most effective way to do it, is to do it. – Amelia Earhart

Short and sweet today.

Take action.

Stop thinking about it.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Faith is allowing ourselves to be seized by the things we do not see. – Martin Luther

In “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill he talked a lot about faith. He told the stories of Edison, Ford and others like them to illustrate that these success stories were born through extreme faith. They all latched on to a vision of the future and never lost faith that it would come to be reality.

The quote above reminded me of this because of his use of the word seized.

Many of the great success stories could be written using that description.

Henry Ford was seized by the idea of creating an affordable car.

Thomas Edison was seized by the idea of creating a light bulb.

The question for each of us is: What has seized me?

Are we seized by worry, jealousy, and fear?

Or are we seized by prosperity, contentment and joy?

We do not have to invent the next light bulb to be able to have faith in a big idea that will seize us and lead us to success and happiness.

Make it a great day.

Jake

JW: Fall seven times. Stand up eight. – Japanese Proverb

MS*: I thank you God for this most amazing day, for the leaping greenly spirits of trees, and for the blue dream of sky and for everything which is natural, which is infinite, which is yes. – e. e. cummings

JD: Whenever I feel blue, I start breathing again. – L. Frank Baum

EB: Blue eyes say, love me or I die: black eyes say, love me or I kill thee. – Spanish Proverb

JR: There is no blue without yellow and without orange. – Vincent Van Gogh

We went with a “blue” theme today.

One of my favorite things about summer is the blue skies (I know they are there other times too).

Something so amazing about the seemingly endless space.

Don’t forget to get out and enjoy the blue skies this summer.

Make it a great day.

Jake

If serving is below you, leadership is beyond you. – Anon

Mikie sent me this quote the other day and it has popped into my head a few times since.

Great leadership starts with service.

Greatness in general starts with service.

I think there is a book entitled “Servant’s Heart”, and I think that little phrase says it well.

If we can work on our heart and attitude to the point where our heart is aimed at service, we will find success.

Find someone to serve today. Make it a point to do it with joy in your heart.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Our flag honors those who have fought to protect it, and is a reminder of the sacrifice of our nation’s founders and heroes. As the ultimate icon of America’s storied history, the Stars and Stripes represents the very best of this nation. – Joe Barton

Not only was yesterday our anniversary, but we also had the good sense to get married on Flag Day.

Flag Day is one of those holidays that I’m sure I didn’t know existed until we got married on the same day, but I’ve come to appreciate the idea now that I know it is there.

The American flag is an important symbol of what is right in the world.

Freedom, liberty, democracy and sacrifice.

Each time I am reminded of all of the good things that come with being an American, I am also reminded of what Viktor Frankl said. He suggested that since we have a Statue of Liberty in the East, we should have a Statue of Responsibility in the West.

The American Flag is also a responsibility for each of us.

To do our best to protect what it stands for and to build upon and not tear down all that has been built since our country was founded.

Make it a great day.

Jake

https://youtu.be/3GwjfUFyY6M

Sunday will be our 13th anniversary so I couldn’t resist sending out this classic that has probably been played at more weddings than you can count.

Weddings and anniversaries are a great reminder of how lucky some of us are having found our wife or husband.

If you are lucky enough to have a spouse, give them an extra squeeze and “I love you” today.

If you haven’t found that person yet, keep looking. It’ll be worth the wait.

Make it a great day.

Jake