Author: jakedavis1910

Daily Attitude Email 12 23 13

Last Daily Attitude Email before being off for Christmas for a few days.

Being extra sappy, that means you get a sappy Christmas song and a sappy Christmas story.

Merry Christmas.

Jake

Sappy Christmas song:

http://youtu.be/XPm3CWvDmvc

Sappy Christmas story:

My grandma taught me everything about Christmas. I was just a kid. I remember tearing across town on my bike to visit her on the day my big sister dropped the bomb: "There is no Santa Claus," jeered my sister. "Even dummies know that!"

My grandma was not the gushy kind, never had been. I fled to her that day because I knew she would be straight with me. I knew Grandma always told the truth, and I knew that the truth always went down a whole lot easier when swallowed with one of her world-famous cinnamon buns.

Grandma was home, and the buns were still warm. Between bites, I told her everything. She was ready for me.

"No Santa Claus!" she snorted. "Ridiculous! Don’t believe it. That rumor has been going around for years, and it makes me mad, plain mad. Now, put on your coat, and let’s go."

"Go? Go where, Grandma?" I asked. I hadn’t even finished my second cinnamon bun.

"Where" turned out to be Kerby’s General Store, the one store in town that had a little bit of just about everything. As we walked through its doors, Grandma handed me ten dollars. That was a bundle in those days.

"Take this money," she said, "and buy something for someone who needs it. I’ll wait for you in the car." Then she turned and walked out of Kerby’s.

I was only eight years old. I’d often gone shopping with my mother, but never had I shopped for anything all by myself. The store seemed big and crowded, full of people scrambling to finish their Christmas shopping. For a few moments I just stood there, confused, clutching that ten-dollar bill, wondering what to buy, and who on earth to buy it for. I thought of everybody I knew: my family, my friends, my neighbors, the kids at school, the people who went to my church.

I was just about thought out, when I suddenly thought of Bobbie Decker. He was a kid with bad breath and messy hair, and he sat right behind me in Mrs. Pollock’s grade-two class. Bobbie Decker didn’t have a coat. I knew that because he never went out for recess during the winter. His mother always wrote a note, telling the teacher that he had a cough; but all we kids knew that Bobbie Decker didn’t have a cough, and he didn’t have a coat.

I fingered the ten-dollar bill with growing excitement. I would buy Bobbie Decker a coat. I settled on a red corduroy one that had a hood to it. It looked real warm, and he would like that. I didn’t see a price tag, but ten dollars ought to buy anything. I put the coat and my ten-dollar bill on the counter and pushed them toward the lady behind it.

She looked at the coat, the money, and me. "Is this a Christmas present for someone?" she asked kindly. "Yes," I replied shyly. "It’s … for Bobbie. He’s in my class, and he doesn’t have a coat." The nice lady smiled at me. I didn’t get any change, but she put the coat in a bag and wished me a Merry Christmas.

That evening, Grandma helped me wrap the coat in Christmas paper and ribbons, and write, "To Bobbie, From Santa Claus" on it … Grandma said that Santa always insisted on secrecy.

Then she drove me over to Bobbie Decker’s house, explaining as we went that I was now and forever officially one of Santa’s helpers. Grandma parked down the street from Bobbie’s house, and she and I crept noiselessly and hid in the bushes by his front walk.

Suddenly, Grandma gave me a nudge. "All right, Santa Claus," she whispered, "get going."

I took a deep breath, dashed for his front door, threw the present down on his step, pounded his doorbell twice and flew back to the safety of the bushes and Grandma. Together we waited breathlessly in the darkness for the front door to open. Finally it did, and there stood Bobbie. He looked down, looked around, picked up his present, took it inside and closed the door.

Forty years haven’t dimmed the thrill of those moments spent shivering, beside my grandma, in Bobbie Decker’s bushes. That night, I realized that those awful rumors about Santa Claus were just what Grandma said they were: Ridiculous!

Santa was alive and well … AND WE WERE ON HIS TEAM!

The Phrase That Pays

JW – There is no telling how many miles you will have to run while chasing a dream. – Author Unknown

MS – Courage is not simply one of the virtues, but the form of every virtue at the testing point. – CS Lewis

EB – It’s Christmas time in Hollis Queens. – Run DMC

JD – But I am sure that I have always thought of Christmas time, when it has come round… as a good time; a kind, forgiving, charitable, pleasant time; the only time I know of, in the long calendar of the year, when men and women seem by one consent to open their shut-up hearts freely. – Charles Dickens

Here is the link to EB’s Run DMC request. I am sure there is at least one inappropriate lyric in there, so be forewarned.

http://youtu.be/OR07r0ZMFb8

I really liked the end of the Charles Dickens quote from “A Christmas Carol” – “when men and women seem by one consent to open their shut-up hearts freely.”

Not to be too corny here, but don’t forget to open your heart a little and let the Christmas spirit in.

Let yourself get wrapped up in the good stuff that comes with Christmas: kindness, forgiveness, charity, time with family, love and generosity.

Merry Christmas.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 12 19 13

Went and found my favorite of the short stories I shared last Christmas:

“Norman Vincent Peale, noted minister and author from the previous century, tells the story of a young girl from Sweden spending Christmas in big, bustling New York City. She was living with an American family and helping them around the house, and she didn’t have much money. So she knew she couldn’t get them a very nice Christmas present – besides, they already had so much, with new gifts arriving every day.

With just a little money in her pocket, she went out and bought an outfit for a small baby, and then she set out on a journey to find the poorest part of town and the poorest baby she could find. At first, she received only strange looks from passersby when she asked them for help. But then a kind stranger, a Salvation Army bell-ringer, guided her to a poor part of town and helped her deliver her gift. On Christmas morning, instead of giving them a wrapped present, she told the family she served what she had done in their name. Everyone was speechless, and everyone was blessed – the girl for giving, the wealthy family for seeing others with new eyes, and the poor family for receiving an unexpected gift.

All of us have opportunities both large and small to show kindness, especially at Christmastime. We can help strangers by delivering gifts to needy kids or serving homeless families at a soup kitchen. Or we can simply look for everyday ways to be kind, like allowing someone to go ahead of us in a lengthy line at the department store, or giving that bell-ringer a little change and a few encouraging words.

Maybe it’s because we’re in gift-giving mode anyway that giving to others becomes so important at Christmas. Or because we’re more aware of our families and friends and communities. Or maybe it’s because two thousand years ago, the earth received the most perfect, most loving gift of all, helping us to understand true kindness.

Whatever the reason, don’t let Christmas pass you by without showing kindness to someone. Because it is truly more blessed to give than to receive.”

Merry Christmas.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 12 18 13

Officially one week out from Christmas today.

And since we still have small children at home, my favorite Christmas story is “The Grinch Whole Stole Christmas” by Dr. Seuss.

Here are my favorite few lines:

And the Grinch, with his grinch-feet ice-cold in the snow,

Stood puzzling and puzzling: "How could it be so?

It came without ribbons! It came without tags!

"It came without packages, boxes or bags!"

And he puzzled three hours, `till his puzzler was sore.

Then the Grinch thought of something he hadn’t before!

"Maybe Christmas," he thought, "doesn’t come from a store.

"Maybe Christmas…perhaps…means a little bit more!"

Maybe I’m just a little bit of a sap, but I think that there is some magic to Christmas. And that it doesn’t come from a store.

As we make this last push towards Christmas, let’s focus on more than the packages, box and bags.

Merry Christmas.

Jake

Bonus Materials:

The Gring song: http://youtu.be/ZgP0aUKlmNw

The whole text to the book: http://bloggingmis.blogspot.com/2010/03/how-grinch-stole-christmas.html

Daily Attitude Email 12 17 13

Today is my birthday.

Maybe it is just that I am so old now, but birthdays mean something different now.

The last couple of birthdays have been more about thankfulness than anything else.

Thankfulness for a wonderful wife.

Thankfulness for three great kids.

Thankfulness for all the opportunities and challenges.

Thankfulness for all of you who let me invade your inbox 5 days a week.

There are so many things to be thankful for and a birthday is a great time to sit down and count your blessings.

So, thank you to each and every one of you.

Merry Christmas.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 12 16 13

http://youtu.be/zIEIvi2MuEk

This is a great video about a great idea executed by WestJet.

This certainly falls into the category of “great marketing ideas”, but it also made me realize something about “great marketing ideas”.

Those ideas that are really great marketing ideas are really just great relationship and people ideas.

This really hit home for me with this video when the lady was actually crying when she opened the camera.

Think about that. An airline gave a lady a camera. But they did so in such a meaningful way that it made her cry.

Want to make this Christmas special? Add some special meaning to what you do for others.

Help out a neighbor.

Find someone in real need of something. And then give it to them.

Merry Christmas.

Jake

The Phrase That Pays

MS* – Christmas waves a magic wand over this world, and behold, everything is softer and more beautiful. – Norman Vincent Peale

JW* – Christmas is not a time nor a season, but a state of mind. To cherish peace and goodwill, to be plenteous in mercy, is to have the real spirit of Christmas. – Calvin Coolidge

EB* – The earth has grown old with its burden of care, but at Christmas it always is young, the heart of the jewel burns lustrous and fair, and its soul full of music breaks the air, when the song of angels is sung. – Phillips Brooks

JD* – Now, the essence, the very spirit of Christmas is that we first make believe a thing is so, and lo, it presently turns out to be so. – Stephen Leacock

Forgot to gather quotes from everyone so I went and found some Christmas themed quotes.

I really liked the last one.

Let’s all make it a point to make believe that Christmas is a time of love, peace and generosity.

Maybe, it just might turn out to be so.

Merry Christmas,

Jake

Friday Morning Toe Tapper

http://youtu.be/meU4cxhdjJI

While I think this is a fun/funny Christmas song, it mostly reminds me of my favorite lines from that movie.

Here are the words spoken at the beginning:

Whenever I get gloomy with the state of the world, I think about the arrivals gate at Heathrow Airport. General opinion’s starting to make out that we live in a world of hatred and greed, but I don’t see that. It seems to me that love is everywhere. Often, it’s not particularly dignified or newsworthy, but it’s always there – fathers and sons, mothers and daughters, husbands and wives, boyfriends, girlfriends, old friends. When the planes hit the Twin Towers, as far as I know, none of the phone calls from the people on board were messages of hate or revenge – they were all messages of love. If you look for it, I’ve got a sneaky feeling you’ll find that love actually is all around.

The video is here: http://youtu.be/PMScPVO4rLw.

Every time I watch that movie I am reminded of my favorite part of Christmas. Spending time with loved ones.

And when I think of those moments, I agree with the sentiment from the movie. Love is actually all around.

What can you do to look for the good this holiday season?

Merry Christmas.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 12 12 13

Today’s email will be a slight addition to yesterday’s.

In yesterday’s email I encouraged everyone to find something small they could do to show appreciation and make the day of someone they know.

But it can be even simpler than that.

Just wishing for the happiness of a complete stranger can cause you to become a happier person.

Norman Vincent Peale illustrated his version of this in "The Power of Positive Thinking". Anytime he was in a crowd, he would choose a person and say a little prayer for that person, hoping for their happiness and health.

I encourage you to try this little thought experiment today.

Pick a stranger today and think a positive thought about them.

And see how you feel afterwards.

There is something about thinking about others and thinking positively that changes the way our brains work.

Merry Christmas.

Jake