Author: jakedavis1910

Daily Attitude Email 7 17 12

Slow down and everything you are chasing will come around and catch you. -John DePaola

I have also heard success or happiness described as a butterfly. You can run around all day long trying to catch the butterfly, but only when you slow down and stay still will it come to you and rest on you.

This is another of life’s great mysteries. You must continually move forward in the direction of your dreams but at the same time be calm, peaceful and slow down in order to attract the results you want.

Think about some of your life goals, maybe there are one or two that require you to slow down a little.

Maybe you need to slow down a little and enjoy some slow moments with your small child before they aren’t so small anymore.

Maybe a coworker needs you to just slow down and listen for a little while.

Maybe you need to slow down and spend time with your spouse or a close friend just talking about nothing in particular.

Maybe you need some quite reading and reflection time to get through a tough time or problem.

Maybe you need to lighten your schedule a little so you can make those wise food or money decisions needed to meet your goals.

I am sure we all have something that if we would just slow down it would come right around and catch us.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 7 16 12

To teach is to learn twice. – Joseph Joubert

Teaching someone else something is such a positive experience in our lives.

We get to learn twice and they get something new out of the experience.

There are so many teachable moments in our lives when we have the opportunity to teach someone else, we just need to look for them.

This concept can also be used purposefully in your own skill development.

Have a skill that you want to become an expert in? Sign up to teach a class or set up a time to show a friend.

By creating a situation where you have to teach someone you will have created the opportunity for yourself to learn twice.

We all have lots of learning left to do, but maybe some of it should come in the form of teaching.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Phrase That Pays

EB – Rumor has it….we will overcome.

JW – @#%$^&*(@!#$%^&#

JM – The last 29 days of the month are the hardest. Nikola Tesla

JS – Honest differences are often a healthy sign of progress. Ghandi

JD -Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of effort is the same. – Francesca Reigler

KJ – Success is the study of the obvious. Everyone should take Obvious I and Obvious II in school. — Jim Rohn

The quote above from Francesca Reigler reminded me of something that Jim Collins also talks about in Good to Great.

Jim’s contention is that in the long run it is actually easier to go through the effort it takes to become great instead of just good.

We are all moving through life at the exact same speed, the only question is towards what? To what end?

What have you set your sights on?

Do you have your attitude and sights set on happiness?

If not, you might want to rethink things a little…..you might as well, the time and days are going to pass by anyway.

Jake

Friday Morning Toe Tapper

http://youtu.be/xox8OknBJQc

Since it has felt extra summery lately and I just went to this concert last week, this song felt appropriate.

One of the positive changes I am trying to make is learning to appreciate all the seasons of the year.

Appreciating each season for its unique role in the flow of time.

Even appreciating the heat in the summer and the cold in the winter for their balance.

Let’s all make it a point to enjoy the summer and to do all of those summertime activities that make summertime so special.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 7 12 12

Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others. If you have that awareness, you have good manners, no matter which fork you use.

-Emily Post

Meaghan has this quote on her blog and it reminded me of another quote that I really like as well "I am convinced that most of society’s ills could be solved with simple manners."

Manners are really just a manner (how about that for a play on words) for showing others that we are thinking of them more than ourselves. They are a simple way to show others we care more for them and their comfort than our own.

It is almost unbelievable how far simple "please" and "thank you’s" can take you in getting along with others in life.

Empathy for others is an important step in becoming a more mature and well rounded person.

In order to become the best version of ourselves we must subjugate our needs for those of others around us.

Let’s all make an effort today to use our manners a little more and think of ourselves a little less.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 7 11 12

“To have a mind full of peace simply fill it with peace.”

Norman Vincent Peale

I must be a simple person because I am attracted to these simple quotes.

In order to be peaceful, you must fill your mind with peace. We often spend our days worrying and full of stress, repeating and introducing worrisome and nerve producing thoughts into our mind and then wonder why we aren’t filled with peace.

We wonder why it is that when we look around in our lives we can’t find that peace we are looking for.

Psst….got a secret for you.

You put it all there.

You put the worry in.

You put the nervousness in.

You put the stress in.

What might happen if you put peace in instead?

What if you read and said peaceful things?

What if you spent time with peaceful people?

And it works for more than just a peaceful mind.

Want a joyful heart, simply fill it with joy.

Want a mind full of wisdom, simply fill it wisdom.

Want a relationship filled with love, simply fill it with love.

Want a career filled with meaning, simply fill it with meaning.

Did I mention that I love these simple sayings…..so easy to apply to so many areas of life.

Make it a great day filled with __________, you fill in the blank.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 7 10 12

‎"The best motivation is self-motivation. The guy says, "I wish someone would come by and turn me on." What if they don’t show up? You’ve got to have a better plan for your life." — Jim Rohn

I know you all have been anxiously awaiting the next Jim Rohn quote as part of a daily attitude email.

I saw this one on the FaceBox and thought it would be a good one to share.

If you really want something in your life, you will need to find the self motivation to make it happen.

Others will come along and offer help, but the start of the important changes belongs with you.

Too often we fall into the temptation of waiting for someone or something else to come along and get us jump started towards the change we need in our life.

If you are waiting for someone else, your results will depend on their "want to" and not your own.

That workout partner might not want to work out as much as you do.

That diet partner might want to "fudge" a little on that diet (pun intended).

That financial advisor/counselor might not want to meet and review as much as you need.

We all need others along the way, there is no discounting the positive effect that others can make in our lives.

We just can’t depend on them for the motivation part. We must find that within ourselves.

Make it a great day.

Jake

PS. Jim is definitely not talking about the daily attitude emails. Those are a great way to find motivation. Plus, you only have to wait until the next morning to get one of those..

Daily Attitude Email 7 9 12

Saturday night I had the unique (at least for me) experience of going to a Tim McGraw and Kenny Chesney concert at Soldier Field.

I am not much of a country music fan, so I spent much of the time people and crowd watching.

It is amazing what happens when you get tens of thousands of people in one place together. It is even more amazing when you get the majority of those people to sing and dance along to a song.

There was a lot of power in all those people and their collective voices and actions.

It was a great reminder of just what we can do if we work together as human beings.

A positively focused group of people can accomplish amazing things.

I am glad to be part of a great group here at Mavidea.

Make it a great week.

Jake

The Phrase That Pays

KJ – “If I want to be great I have to win the victory over myself…self-discipline” Harry S Truman

JW – A room full of appalling hardware….it was a spectacular mess.

JM* – Happy Birthday America!

JD – We hold these truths to be self-evident….

EB – How about some rain, huh?

JS – Good judgment comes experience and experience comes from bad judgment. Barry Lepatner

Below is the text for the entire Declaration of Independence. I hadn’t read it in a long time, and the last line stuck out to me.

“And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes and our sacred Honor.”

What are you willing to pledge your life, fortune and honor for?

Make it a great weekend and enjoy this great country of ours.

Jake

IN CONGRESS, July 4, 1776.

The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen united States of America,

When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature’s God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.–That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, –That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security.–Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.

He has refused his Assent to Laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the public good.

He has forbidden his Governors to pass Laws of immediate and pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his Assent should be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to them.

He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to tyrants only.

He has called together legislative bodies at places unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their public Records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.

He has dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness his invasions on the rights of the people.

He has refused for a long time, after such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected; whereby the Legislative powers, incapable of Annihilation, have returned to the People at large for their exercise; the State remaining in the mean time exposed to all the dangers of invasion from without, and convulsions within.

He has endeavoured to prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws for Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of Lands.

He has obstructed the Administration of Justice, by refusing his Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary powers.

He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.

He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harrass our people, and eat out their substance.

He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without the Consent of our legislatures.

He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil power.

He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his Assent to their Acts of pretended Legislation:

For Quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:

For protecting them, by a mock Trial, from punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the Inhabitants of these States:

For cutting off our Trade with all parts of the world:

For imposing Taxes on us without our Consent:

For depriving us in many cases, of the benefits of Trial by Jury:

For transporting us beyond Seas to be tried for pretended offences

For abolishing the free System of English Laws in a neighbouring Province, establishing therein an Arbitrary government, and enlarging its Boundaries so as to render it at once an example and fit instrument for introducing the same absolute rule into these Colonies:

For taking away our Charters, abolishing our most valuable Laws, and altering fundamentally the Forms of our Governments:

For suspending our own Legislatures, and declaring themselves invested with power to legislate for us in all cases whatsoever.

He has abdicated Government here, by declaring us out of his Protection and waging War against us.

He has plundered our seas, ravaged our Coasts, burnt our towns, and destroyed the lives of our people.

He is at this time transporting large Armies of foreign Mercenaries to compleat the works of death, desolation and tyranny, already begun with circumstances of Cruelty & perfidy scarcely paralleled in the most barbarous ages, and totally unworthy the Head of a civilized nation.

He has constrained our fellow Citizens taken Captive on the high Seas to bear Arms against their Country, to become the executioners of their friends and Brethren, or to fall themselves by their Hands.

He has excited domestic insurrections amongst us, and has endeavoured to bring on the inhabitants of our frontiers, the merciless Indian Savages, whose known rule of warfare, is an undistinguished destruction of all ages, sexes and conditions.

In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A Prince whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free people.

Nor have We been wanting in attentions to our British brethren. We have warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances of our emigration and settlement here. We have appealed to their native justice and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to disavow these usurpations, which, would inevitably interrupt our connections and correspondence. They too have been deaf to the voice of justice and of consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces our Separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, Enemies in War, in Peace Friends.

We, therefore, the Representatives of the united States of America, in General Congress, Assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do, in the Name, and by Authority of the good People of these Colonies, solemnly publish and declare, That these United Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States; that they are Absolved from all Allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political connection between them and the State of Great Britain, is and ought to be totally dissolved; and that as Free and Independent States, they have full Power to levy War, conclude Peace, contract Alliances, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things which Independent States may of right do. And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes and our sacred Honor.

The 56 signatures on the Declaration appear in the positions indicated:

Column 1

Georgia:

Button Gwinnett

Lyman Hall

George Walton

Column 2

North Carolina:

William Hooper

Joseph Hewes

John Penn

South Carolina:

Edward Rutledge

Thomas Heyward, Jr.

Thomas Lynch, Jr.

Arthur Middleton

Column 3

Massachusetts:

John Hancock

Maryland:

Samuel Chase

William Paca

Thomas Stone

Charles Carroll of Carrollton

Virginia:

George Wythe

Richard Henry Lee

Thomas Jefferson

Benjamin Harrison

Thomas Nelson, Jr.

Francis Lightfoot Lee

Carter Braxton

Column 4

Pennsylvania:

Robert Morris

Benjamin Rush

Benjamin Franklin

John Morton

George Clymer

James Smith

George Taylor

James Wilson

George Ross

Delaware:

Caesar Rodney

George Read

Thomas McKean

Column 5

New York:

William Floyd

Philip Livingston

Francis Lewis

Lewis Morris

New Jersey:

Richard Stockton

John Witherspoon

Francis Hopkinson

John Hart

Abraham Clark

Column 6

New Hampshire:

Josiah Bartlett

William Whipple

Massachusetts:

Samuel Adams

John Adams

Robert Treat Paine

Elbridge Gerry

Rhode Island:

Stephen Hopkins

William Ellery

Connecticut:

Roger Sherman

Samuel Huntington

William Williams

Oliver Wolcott

New Hampshire:

Matthew Thornton

Friday Morning Toe Tapper

I couldn’t decide which of the songs they played during the fireworks that I wanted to send out so I am just sending a bunch of them. You pick your own.

America the Beautiful – Ray Charles

http://youtu.be/gOvA-Hn4_ZM

Firework – Katy Perry

http://youtu.be/gOvA-Hn4_ZM

God Bless the USA – Lee Greenwood

http://youtu.be/RINqibpWOzQ

Coming to America – Neil Diamond

http://youtu.be/cRTHdC7k4uY

Born in the USA – Bruce Springsteen

http://youtu.be/lZD4ezDbbu4

I am sure I missed a bunch, feel free to find and listen to your own to get this Friday started off right.

Be thankful for everything this great nation affords all of us.

Jake