One last quote and thought from Viktor Frankl’s “Man’s Search for Meaning”.

After spending some time in America teaching and lecturing, Viktor made a suggestion.

He suggested that the Statue of Liberty on the East Coast be supplemented with a Statue of Responsibility on the West Coast.

In order to have and make the best of use of the liberties presented us, we must take responsibility for all of our actions.

Interesting that I thought of typing this email today only to realize halfway through the tie in with Memorial Day.

The liberty we enjoy is because of the deaths and sacrifices of those in our armed forces and we owe it to them to take responsibility for ourselves and for making the most of it.

Make it a great day. One full of both liberty and responsibility.

Jake

One last blatant sales pitch for this one – read “Man’s Search for Meaning”.

Since I am still feeling patriotic and appreciative of everything our soldiers have done and will do, I thought I would send out this song and the lyrics below.

http://youtu.be/gOvA-Hn4_ZM

Make it a great day.

Jake

America the Beautiful

Words by Katharine Lee Bates,

Melody by Samuel Ward

O beautiful for spacious skies,

For amber waves of grain,

For purple mountain majesties

Above the fruited plain!

America! America!

God shed his grace on thee

And crown thy good with brotherhood

From sea to shining sea!

O beautiful for pilgrim feet

Whose stern impassioned stress

A thoroughfare of freedom beat

Across the wilderness!

America! America!

God mend thine every flaw,

Confirm thy soul in self-control,

Thy liberty in law!

O beautiful for heroes proved

In liberating strife.

Who more than self their country loved

And mercy more than life!

America! America!

May God thy gold refine

Till all success be nobleness

And every gain divine!

O beautiful for patriot dream

That sees beyond the years

Thine alabaster cities gleam

Undimmed by human tears!

America! America!

God shed his grace on thee

And crown thy good with brotherhood

From sea to shining sea!

O beautiful for halcyon skies,

For amber waves of grain,

For purple mountain majesties

Above the enameled plain!

America! America!

God shed his grace on thee

Till souls wax fair as earth and air

And music-hearted sea!

O beautiful for pilgrims feet,

Whose stem impassioned stress

A thoroughfare for freedom beat

Across the wilderness!

America! America!

God shed his grace on thee

Till paths be wrought through

wilds of thought

By pilgrim foot and knee!

O beautiful for glory-tale

Of liberating strife

When once and twice,

for man’s avail

Men lavished precious life!

America! America!

God shed his grace on thee

Till selfish gain no longer stain

The banner of the free!

O beautiful for patriot dream

That sees beyond the years

Thine alabaster cities gleam

Undimmed by human tears!

America! America!

God shed his grace on thee

Till nobler men keep once again

Thy whiter jubilee!

Worry. A topic that could probably take up a whole month’s worth of Daily Attitude Emails.

I received the excerpt below the other day and thought about how worry probably effects most of us that receive this email.

I especially liked the last line “Anxiety does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow, but only empties today of its strength.”

How many days have gone by in your life without strength because you spent them worrying about tomorrow and what might happen?

Spending even one day worrying instead of living out or moving towards your dreams is a waste.

We only get one chance to live each day, let’s make the best of them.

Make it a great week.

Jake

An excerpt from

Attitude is Everything

by Vicki Hitzges

I used to worry. A lot. The more I fretted, the more proficient I became at it. Anxiety begets anxiety. I even worried that I worried too much! Ulcers might develop. My health could fail. My finances could deplete to pay the hospital bills.

A comedian once said, "I tried to drown my worries with gin, but my worries are equipped with flotation devices." While not a drinker, I certainly could identify! My worries could swim, jump and pole vault!

To get some perspective, I visited a well known, Dallas businessman, Fred Smith. Fred mentored such luminaries as motivational whiz Zig Ziglar, business guru Ken Blanchard and leadership expert John Maxwell. Fred listened as I poured out my concerns and then said, "Vicki, you need to learn to wait to worry."

As the words sank in, I asked Fred if he ever spent time fretting. (I was quite certain he wouldn’t admit it if he did. He was pretty full of testosterone—even at age 90.) To my surprise, he confessed that in years gone by he had been a top-notch worrier!

"I decided that I would wait to worry!" he explained. "I decided that I’d wait until I actually had a reason to worry—something that was happening, not just something that might happen—before I worried."

"When I’m tempted to get alarmed," he confided, "I tell myself, ‘Fred, you’ve got to wait to worry! Until you know differently, don’t worry.’ And I don’t. Waiting to worry helps me develop the habit of not worrying and that helps me not be tempted to worry."

Fred possessed a quick mind and a gift for gab. As such, he became a captivating public speaker. "I frequently ask audiences what they were worried about this time last year. I get a lot of laughs," he said, "because most people can’t remember. Then I ask if they have a current worry—you see nods from everybody. Then I remind them that the average worrier is 92% inefficient—only 8% of what we worry about ever comes true."

Charles Spurgeon said it best. "Anxiety does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow, but only empties today of its strength."

A tree that is unbending is easily broken. Lao-Tsu

This one falls into the category of life’s great balancing acts.

We must balance our ability to be flexible with our steadfastness to our core values and who we are as a person.

We must give to others without giving up who we are.

We must get along with the crowd while standing apart from it.

We must be our own person while treating and working with others as they want to be treated.

So, I will take a little editorial freedom and add the following to the quote above from Lao-Tsu.

“A bending tree does not touch the sky.”

We must stand tall in our values and our own uniqueness while being flexible enough to survive all the storms and winds of life.

Make it a great day.

Jake

“You need to ask for help so we can use the funds as designed. There have been cases where people have had personal crisis situations and not reached out. When I asked why, they were too proud to seek help. Let me give you a newsflash. Every one of us needs help. The only question is when. Please let Hands That Give fulfill its mission. Yes, it is often personal. Life is that way. Get over it and let people who care help you.”

I received the above as part of a message yesterday and thought I would share.

We have a tendency to hold on to our problems and not ask for help. Sometimes taking responsibility for ourselves and our actions means asking for help, not keeping it all bottled up inside.

One of the most interesting things that I got from reading the Go Giver the first time was the concept that in order to be part of the giving process you must also be willing to receive.

If you need help with something ask for help.

Need help getting started on an exercise program….find a workout buddy.

Need help with monthly budget….find a trusted advisor to go over it every month.

Need help making better food choices….find someone else trying to do the same and eat with them regularly.

Need someone to talk to….just start talking.

I love the last line above.

Get over it and let people who care help you.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Last. Day. Of School.

Hard to believe that my little Maggie is already finished her first year of school.

Seems like just yesterday (I think I am going to be saying that a lot over the years) she was headed off for that first day, a little nervous and a lot excited.

Now she moves onward and upward. Before you know it, finishing another year will be old hat.

It reminds me of the seasons of life as described by this song:

http://youtu.be/fg73MRomwSA

What a great metaphor for life. Jim Rohn talks about the seasons of life and what role we play during the various seasons of life.

As I think back to my childhood and summers from when I was a kid I think of exploring, curiousity, learning how to make my own fun, and many other great memories.

Today I wish for the same for Maggie, but I also wish for each of us to find a little bit of that in ourselves again this summer.

Go swimming.

Go fishing.

Play baseball.

Spend time just sitting outside shooting the breeze with friends.

Go to a baseball game.

Life is short. We have so few summers. Take advantage of them.

Jake

How can I help?

I heard someone say this the other day and realized just how great a way to look at life it is.

It combines two important aspects of finding happiness and success.

First, when you say this you are taking personal responsibility. Taking ownership of what happens is a cornerstone of becoming happier.

Second, by saying this you are offering to be of service. Serving others leads us down the path towards success.

Instead of shooting down other’s ideas or second guessing their decisions, let’s make an effort to ask this simple question.

How can I help you have a great week this week?

Jake