Author: jakedavis1910

Daily Attitude Email 11 8 12

Notice that the stiffest tree is most easily cracked, while the bamboo or willow survives by bending with the wind.

Bruce Lee

One of the important lessons to learn from politics is this concept of bending a little with the winds of the day.

Good politicians have learned how to work with each other through their differences and competing interests to get to a solution that is best for everyone.

Sometimes having the "right" philosophy or the "right" solution (no pun intended) is not the most important thing. Sometimes the best way to win the argument is by not entering into it at all.

Like a lot of things in life, this is something that must be done in moderation and with wisdom.

Bend too much and you lose all your values and standards. Before you know it you have lost yourself and the faith of those who depend on you.

We must the find balance between values that we are willing to give everything for and all of those little compromises we make every day.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 11 7 12

Well, the election is over. No more TV ads to look forward to and not really sure how I will spend my time.

But wait, maybe there is something we can do.

Maybe we can work together, support the office of the presidency and do our best to move the country forward.

Below is a speech that was given (maybe performed would be the better word) by someone in our Toastmasters group last week.

I wanted to send it after the election as a reminder that now is the time to work together.

Take the time to read it and honestly think about what your role in working together might be.

Make it a great day.

Jake

“I can’t control what people think this was. I can only tell you my intentions. This was not a rally to ridicule people of faith or people of activism or to look down our noses at the heartland or passionate argument or to suggest that times are not difficult and that we have nothing to fear. They are and we do. But we live now in hard times, not end times. And we can have animus and not be enemies.

But unfortunately one of our main tools in delineating the two broke. The country’s 24 hour political pundit perpetual panic conflictinator did not cause our problems but its existence makes solving them that much harder. The press can hold its magnifying glass up to our problems bringing them into focus, illuminating issues heretofore unseen or they can use that magnifying glass to light ants on fire and then perhaps host a week of shows on the sudden, unexpected dangerous flaming ant epidemic.

If we amplify everything we hear nothing. There are terrorists and racists and Stalinists and theocrats but those are titles that must be earned. You must have the resume. Not being able to distinguish between real racists and Tea Partiers or real bigots and Juan Williams and Rick Sanchez is an insult, not only to those people but to the racists themselves who have put in the exhausting effort it takes to hate–just as the inability to distinguish terrorists from Muslims makes us less safe not more. The press is our immune system. If we overreact to everything we actually get sicker–and perhaps eczema.

And yet, with that being said, I feel good—strangely, calmly good. Because the image of Americans that is reflected back to us by our political and media process is false. It is us through a fun house mirror, and not the good kind that makes you look slim in the waist and maybe taller, but the kind where you have a giant forehead and an ass shaped like a month old pumpkin and one eyeball.

So, why would we work together? Why would you reach across the aisle to a pumpkin assed forehead eyeball monster? If the picture of us were true, of course, our inability to solve problems would actually be quite sane and reasonable. Why would you work with Marxists actively subverting our Constitution or racists and homophobes who see no one’s humanity but their own? We hear every damn day about how fragile our country is—on the brink of catastrophe—torn by polarizing hate and how it’s a shame that we can’t work together to get things done, but the truth is we do. We work together to get things done every damn day!

The only place we don’t is here or on cable TV. But Americans don’t live here or on cable TV. Where we live our values and principles form the foundations that sustains us while we get things done, not the barriers that prevent us from getting things done. Most Americans don’t live their lives solely as Democrats, Republicans, liberals or conservatives. Americans live their lives more as people that are just a little bit late for something they have to do—often something that they do not want to do—but they do it–impossible things every day that are only made possible by the little reasonable compromises that we all make.

Look on the screen. This is where we are. This is who we are. (points to the Jumbotron screen which show traffic merging into a tunnel). These cars—that’s a schoolteacher who probably thinks his taxes are too high. He’s going to work. There’s another car-a woman with two small kids who can’t really think about anything else right now. There’s another car, (referring to the Jumbotron blowing in the wind) swinging, I don’t even know if you can see it—the lady’s in the NRA and she loves Oprah. There’s another car—an investment banker, gay, also likes Oprah. Another car’s a Latino carpenter. Another car a fundamentalist vacuum salesman. Atheist obstetrician. Mormon Jay-Z fan. But this is us. Every one of the cars that you see is filled with individuals of strong belief and principles they hold dear—often principles and beliefs in direct opposition to their fellow travelers.

And yet these millions of cars must somehow find a way to squeeze one by one into a mile long 30 foot wide tunnel carved underneath a mighty river. Carved, by the way, by people who I’m sure had their differences.

And they do it. Concession by concession. You go. Then I’ll go. You go. Then I’ll go. You go then I’ll go. Oh my God, is that an NRA sticker on your car? Is that an Obama sticker on your car? Well, that’s okay—you go and then I’ll go.

And sure, at some point there will be a selfish jerk who zips up the shoulder and cuts in at the last minute, but that individual is rare and he is scorned and not hired as an analyst.

Because we know instinctively as a people that if we are to get through the darkness and back into the light we have to work together. And the truth is, there will always be darkness. And sometimes the light at the end of the tunnel isn’t the promised land. Sometimes it’s just New Jersey.

But we do it anyway, together.

If you want to know why I’m here and want I want from you, I can only assure you this: you have already given it to me. Your presence was what I wanted.

Sanity will always be and has always been in the eye of the beholder. To see you here today and the kind of people that you are has restored mine. Thank you."

Jon Stewart’s Rally to Restore Sanity and/or Fear Closing Remarks:

Daily Attitude Email 11 6 12

Election Day. Time for one last sales pitch.

No, I am not going to put the hard press on you to vote for one candidate or another.

I am, however, going to suggest that you go vote.

And I came up with a reason that you probably haven’t heard much on TV.

Go vote for what it will make of you.

Go vote because it will cause you to have to think a little about what you really believe in.

Go vote because it will cause you to think a little about what it really means to live in a democratic and free society.

Go vote because it will afford you the opportunity to research a little and understand our government and system a little more.

Go vote because every time you do you become a little wiser and purposeful about how you vote.

Go vote for a better you.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 11 5 12

Today I thought I would share an excerpt from a Zig Ziglar book that was sent to me recently.

Also, don’t forget to plan ahead to make time to vote tomorrow.

Make it a great day.

Jake

An excerpt from
Create a Life You Can’t Wait to Live

by Zig Ziglar

You are about to experience the life you can’t wait to live—one filled with passion, peak performance and purpose.

I don’t care what the field of endeavor is—sports, business, science, medicine, education, ministry, public service—I don’t believe that anyone will perform at his or her peak without passion. Life’s too tough to get to the top without passion. You’re going to fail, be taken advantage of, be disappointed by people you trust, disappoint yourself, run out of resources—almost every day you’re going to encounter a good, solid, logical reason why you ought to give up. And without passion, you just might. That’s why passion is the prerequisite for peak performance.

Peak performance is dependent on passion, grit, determination, and a willingness to do something poorly until you can do it well. True peak performance is influenced by the condition of your physical, spiritual, business and family life.

The third part of the equation—purpose—is something I have come to believe is a key to the whole dynamic of motivation.

I’ve met people all through my life who had passion of a sort. But because their passion wasn’t fueled by purpose, it would come and go in bits and pieces. They were trying to generate their passion out of their own energy day after day, something that’s ultimately unsustainable. Scientists have yet to invent the world’s first perpetual-motion machine—everything runs down or runs out of gas eventually, including human beings trying to maximize their peak performance day after day.

I believe this book can help motivate you to connect the dots in life, little by little. The end result will be a picture of beauty, purpose and fulfillment—a life you can’t wait to live.

The Phrase That Pays

JD – Days are expensive. When you spend a day you have one less day to spend. So make sure you spend each one wisely. – Jim Rohn

JS – So what are you going to do with all of the Halloween candy sitting around your house?

EB* – If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Let him step to the music which he hears, however measured or far away. – Henry David Thoreau

JM* – Tell the truth. It’s easier to memorize.– Charles Krauthammer

KJ – Today you are you that is truer than true there is no one alive that is youer than you. Dr. Seuss

JW* – We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them. – Albert Einstein

Kim’s quote reminded me again of how much I love Dr. Seuss books.

Dr. Seuss (and other great authors) has a unique ability to paint silly, whimsical and extreme pictures of the important areas and values of life.

By showing these important concepts in this light he allows us to see more clearly what the right path is.

Reading good books is such an important exercise in helping us clarify what is important in our lives and what we really stand for.

Beginning of sales pitch:

The Mavidea library is overflowing up front. For those of you who can, pick up a book and take it home with you. Feed your mind.

End of sales pitch.

Make it a great weekend.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 11 1 12

Common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds. A sense of humor is just common sense, dancing.

William James

I saw this quote the other day and thought of Mavidea.

One of my favorite things about Mavidea is how funny everyone is and how much we all laugh together.

Next time you see someone exhibit a good sense of humor, just think of this quote and “common sense, dancing.”

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 10 31 12

Hard times don’t create heroes. It is during the hard times when the ‘hero’ within us is revealed.

Bob Riley

In the wake of the devastation from Hurricane Sandy there are and will be many tragic stories told. Stories of those who didn’t make it. Stories of neighborhoods that will never be the same. Stories of lives forever changed.

But there will also be stories of heroes. Stories of those who faced extreme circumstances and met them with extreme courage, extreme compassion and an extreme love of their fellow human beings.

Difficult times reveal the heroes among us.

The neighborhood church that housed the homeless.

The local family that fed the hungry.

The families that pulled together and made it through tough times.

Heroism is one of those uniquely human traits. Revealing the good that lurks within all of us. Showing us, even if only for an instant, the greatness that we have inside of us.

My sincere hope is that all effected by this storm can find peace and safety amongst the devastation. I also hope that we can all take this tragic event and look for the heroes amongst us, and maybe even find the hero inside of all of us.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 10 30 12

If everything is a priority, nothing is.

I have been in several situations lately where I have heard others struggling with this.

It reminded me of the story a friend of mine told me once about the company he was working for. The company had devised a system of prioritizing all of the projects the company was working on so that people could tell what was most important at any given point. Problem was that people lobbied to get their projects on the important list and pretty soon everything was important.

We are all running a company of one, all day, every day.

How we choose to prioritize our lives is a key determinant in how our lives turn out.

Take a good look at how you have spent your last 24 hours or your last 7 days.

Did everything seem like a priority?

Did you let that goofy email distract you from responding to that client faster?

Did you let something else take up that time that was supposed to be spent exercising?

I know this is a difficult area for most of us. We are afraid of making the wrong decisions and picking the wrong priorities so we treat everything like a priority.

Some things in life are more important than others. We all get to pick which ones. But we all have to live with the consequences that those choices produce.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 10 29 12

There are risks and costs to a program of action, but they are far less than the long-range risks and costs of comfortable inaction. – John F. Kennedy

This is a great quote about something I have written about before.

One of the constant hard choices we face in life is whether or not to take the risk.

Some risks represent foolishness and impetuousness, while other risks represent wise moves in a life-changing direction.

The two words from the end of the quote that I think we need to watch out for the most are “comfortable inaction”. We must guard against taking the easy way out and taking no action simply because it is most comfortable.

Make it a great (but slightly uncomfortable) day.

Jake