Author: jakedavis1910

Daily Attitude Email 8 28 12

The other night at dinner we were talking about Maggie’s day at school and Meaghan said “I remember when I was in second grade.”

I came to an exciting (and somewhat scary) realization: Maggie is starting to make memories that will last.

After my brief moment of worry about all the potentially embarrassing memories that will stick with Maggie as she gets older, I had a moment where I realized that we have the opportunity to make sure we create some great memories for Maggie.

You don’t have to have a first grader at home to decide to make some great memories for yourself and your loved ones.

What are you doing with your opportunities to create memories?

Embrace the opportunity, avoid any pressure and anxiety.

Make it a great day of memories.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 8 27 12

The heart finds comfort with every new step of integrity.

One of the speakers from the Global Leadership Summit used this quote and it really struck me.

One of the key traits of successful people is personal integrity. Over time I have come to realize that personal integrity is mostly about whether or not you keep your promises to yourself.

We all make little promises to ourselves every day.

This time I am going to stick with my diet.

I am going to work out three times this week.

I am going to stick to my diet.

I am going to read three books this month.

Whatever those promises that you make to yourself are, they are important.

Every promise made and kept is a building block for self confidence. Each one represents a chance to make yourself the person you want to become.

Start keeping those promises and before you know it, you will have built a fortress that can’t be torn down.

Decide today to start keeping those promises and building that self confidence.

Make it a great day.

Jake

The Phrase That Pays

JD – Education is not the filling of a pail, it is the lighting of a fire. William Butler Yeats

KJ – Communication isn’t about speaking, it’s about listening. – Simon Sinek

JW – Don’t handicap your children by making their lives easy.

JM – No, you’re not hardcore! Unless you live hard core! And the legend of the rent was way hard core!

JS – Yay! School’s back in session.

EB* – My concentration level blocks out everything.

Being a father, I liked JW’s quote about handicapping your children.

And I think it applies to ourselves as well. Too often we take the easy path of life only to find out that in the end we have handicapped ourselves.

We have a tremendous opportunity to do great things. And this often requires taking the (seemingly) more difficult path. We must resist the urge to be easy on ourselves.

Opportunity is missed by most people because it comes dressed in overalls and looks like work. Henry Ford

Make it a great weekend.

Jake

Friday Morning Toe Tapper

In honor of back to school time I searched for some good back to school songs.

For those that are a little darker this one came up:

http://youtu.be/YR5ApYxkU-U

Wow….had never seen that whole video before.

For those that are yearning for a simpler time:

http://youtu.be/DHG5-GxI_Es

And for those that just want something funny:

http://youtu.be/MoCD0zCHTL4

Make it a great Friday.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 8 23 12

Meaghan and I were talking about the Olympics a little yesterday and I wondered aloud as we talked about the marathon “I wonder what kind of time the last place finisher ran.”

So, I looked it up. 2 hours 55 minutes for 26.2 miles. The last place finisher in the Olympic Marathon averaged a 6:40 mile.

I have little doubt that this person (a last place finisher) is in the top 1% of all marathoners in the world.

Watching the Olympics really made me think about how success is defined.

For some, anything other than medaling (or even anything other than a gold medal) was a disappointment.

For others, maybe just being able to be on the stage and to participate was the realization of a life long dream.

Either way the common theme is that of doing your best when it counts.

Performing to your highest capabilities when it matters most. When the pressure is on. When the whole world is watching.

And then being ok with whatever happened from there.

We have the same opportunity every day. Maybe we don’t have the grand stands or the aura of the Olympics around us as we serve customers and each other, but we can do our best.

We can set a new personal record. We can reach for that next level. We can practice a little harder or a little longer.

We can do our best.

Make it a great day. Set a personal record.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 8 22 12

Today is Maggie’s first day of first grade.

So, today I wanted to send out something good about the first day of school.

I found the story below and thought I would share.

While most of us aren’t starting first grade today like Maggie, we do have the opportunity to begin our personal growth anew and with enthusiasm.

Make it a great day.

Jake

A wonderful motivational story for any age…..

The first day of school our professor introduced himself and challenged us to get to know someone we didn’t already know. I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder.

I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that that lit up her entire being.

She said, "Hi, handsome. My name is Grace. I’m eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?" I laughed and enthusiastically responded, "Of course you may!" and she gave me a giant squeeze.

"Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?" I asked.

She jokingly replied, "I’m here to meet a rich husband, get married, have a couple of children, and then retire and travel."

"No seriously," I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age.

"I always dreamed of having a college education and now I’m getting one!" she told me.

After class we walked to the student union building and share a chocolate milkshake. We became instant friends. Every day for the next three months we would leave class together and talk nonstop. I was always mesmerized listening to this "time machine" as she shared her wisdom and experience with me.

Over the course of the year, Grace became a campus icon and she easily made friends wherever she went. She loved to dress up and she reveled in the attention bestowed upon her from the other students. She was living it up.

At the end of the semester we invited Grace to speak at our football banquet. I’ll never forget what she taught us. She was introduced and stepped up to the podium. As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her three by five cards on the floor. Frustrated and a little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply said, "I’m sorry I’m so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this whiskey is killing me! I’ll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you what I know."

As we laughed she cleared her throat and began: "We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing. There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success. "You have to laugh and find humor every day. You’ve got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die. We have so many people walking around who are dead and don’t even know it!"

"There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up. If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don’t do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn eighty-eight. Anybody can grow older. That doesn’t take any talent or ability. The idea is to grow up by always finding the opportunity in change."

"Have no regrets. The elderly usually don’t have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets."

She concluded her speech by courageously singing The Rose. She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives. At the years end Grace finished the college degree she had begun all those years ago.

One week after graduation Grace died peacefully in her sleep.

Over two thousand college students attended her funeral in tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example that it’s never too late to be all you can possibly be.

Daily Attitude Email 8 21 12

One of the great things about living in the Bloomington-Normal area is that we have two colleges in town.

Over the last week or so it has been great watching as all the “kids” come back to town and move in before classes.

Every new school year represents new opportunity, growth, new friends, etc.

I can still remember (even though it was 100 years ago) that feeling of excitement and nervousness as I moved in for that first semester of college. That first semester has some extra meaning for me because that is when I met Meaghan.

College and school have easy to recognize markers for when things are new and changing as students move from one semester to the next and one year to the next.

It isn’t so simple to see these markers in “real life”, but we are all going through these different periods of change and growth.

The key is to look for them.

Look for opportunity to learn something new.

Look for new friends and relationships.

Look for the chance to try something you have never tried before.

And for those of us older folks, look for an opportunity to help and guide those young kids as they go through their transitions of life.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 8 19 12

Would you say the same thing to your best friend?

We have a tendency to be too hard on ourselves and end up in negative thought patterns sometimes because of it.

Next time something negative pops into your head, think about whether or not you would say the same thing to your best friend.

Would you focus on the negative or try to say something encouraging?

Would you tell them they can’t do it or would you be rooting them on?

Would you let them take the easy way out or would you challenge them to do their best?

Too often we let negative thinking dominate our thought patterns about ourselves.

Make it a great day.

Jake

The Phrase That Pays

JD – Life is uphill.
KJ – There is no path, the path is made by walking.
JS – Ghetto…
JW* – Men are afraid to rock the boat in which they hope to drift safely through life’s currents, when, actually, the boat is stuck on a sandbar. They would be better off to rock the boat and try to shake it loose. – Thomas Szasz
JM* – Pick the day. Enjoy it – to the hilt. The day as it comes. People as they come… The past, I think, has helped me appreciate the present – and I don’t want to spoil any of it by fretting about the future. Audrey Hepburn
EB – Great teams do not hold back with one another. They are unafraid to air their dirty laundry. They admit their mistakes, their weaknesses, and their concerns without fear of reprisal. Patrick Lencioni

The quote above from Thomas Szasz really struck me.

I love the analogy of our boat being stuck in a sandbar.

Being from the Midwest, our tendency is very much towards the “don’t rock the boat” mentality. Minimize risk. People please. Don’t offend anyone.

But sometimes in life we need to shake things up. We (or someone we love) are stuck on a sandbar and the boat needs to be rocked.

The hard part (for me at least) is to know when to be calm and when to shake things up. That requires wisdom and understanding that are beyond me most days.

Lately, I have taken to the habit of saying a little prayer to myself in the morning asking for wisdom as I face the choices of the day.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Friday Morning Toe Tapper

http://youtu.be/tR-qQcNT_fY

Only 100 years.

What a great reminder to use our time wisely.

Many of you have heard me say “we are all the same amount of busy”. Time flows past at the same rate for all of us.

The question is, what are you doing with the time as it passes?

Are you spending your time on frivolous and unimportant things? Filling your days with whatever “pops up”?

Or are you investing your time on important relationships? Investing in your self to build that better future? Investing in others to make this a better place someday?

Similar to the power of compound interest when investing your money over the long term, I believe investing our time presents the same possibilities. Small investments made consistently over time can grow into tremendous value.

Let’s all get started on our new investment plans today.

Make it a great day.

Jake