Control.

It seems to me that one of the odd paradoxes of life is our ability to control nothing and everything at the same time.

We have no control over all the external things in our lives, yet we have complete control over ourselves and our attitude and this attitude is what attracts and brings about the external environment we desire.

I suppose that life is a balancing act between mastery of our own mind and letting the rest of life happen.

Below is a list of “to let go’s” that I found when searching for a topic for today. Maybe one of them will inspire you to let go of something that is holding you back.

Make it a great week.

Jake

To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can’t do it for someone else.

To let go is not to cut myself off, it’s the realization that I can’t control another.

To let go is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To let go is not to try to change or blame another, it’s to make the most of myself.

To let go is not to care for, but to care about.

To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To let go is not to be protective, it’s to permit another to face reality.

To let go is not to criticize, or regulate anyone, but to try to become what I dream I can do.

To let go is to fear less, and to love more.

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A man is what he thinks about all day long. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

A difficult one to accept.

Not sure about you, but if I had to be real honest with myself I’d probably be embarrassed by the accumulation of all my thoughts for the day.

The worries, the selfishness, the stupid, petty little wishes for my own comfort and ego.

It’s easy to get confused and frustrated and let a day’s worth of thoughts get away from you.

I doubt that anybody wins the thought battle everyday.

But we can do a little better today than yesterday.

We can feed our minds good thoughts. We can think better thoughts more often. We can surround ourselves with people and content that adds to the good.

What would a better day look like for you? What can you do today to make it better than yesterday?

Make it a great day.

Jake

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But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23

The last few weeks at church have been centered on this verse.

I’ve always liked the Bible verses that feel more direct and straight forward, so this has been one of my favorites.

It seems pretty clear to me – if you want all that good fruit you’ve got to fill yourself up with the Spirit.

I have a ways to go, but the fruit sure seems like it’s worth the work.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23

The last few weeks at church have been centered on this verse.

I’ve always liked the Bible verses that feel more direct and straight forward, so this has been one of my favorites.

It seems pretty clear to me – if you want all that good fruit you’ve got to fill yourself up with the Spirit.

I have a ways to go, but the fruit sure seems like it’s worth the work.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23

The last few weeks at church have been centered on this verse.

I’ve always liked the Bible verses that feel more direct and straight forward, so this has been one of my favorites.

It seems pretty clear to me – if you want all that good fruit you’ve got to fill yourself up with the Spirit.

I have a ways to go, but the fruit sure seems like it’s worth the work.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Life sure can be tricky sometimes.

To know when to be patient or when to push.

To know when to live for today or when to plan for tomorrow.

To know when to give up and move on or when to persevere and push through.

To know when to hold a friend/child/loved one accountable to the higher standard you want for them or when to hug them and tell them it’s all going to be ok.

And some of these situations are not either/or but instead are both/and.

I sure don’t have it all figured out. I sure am glad I have people in my life that put up with me while I muddle my way through it.

And I’m really thankful that I have a Father in heaven who knew about all the times I would get it all wrong and He still sent His Son to die on the cross so that we could live together forever. In the end my hope and focus can’t be on getting all the little balancing acts just right – instead it needs to be on becoming the kind of person that brings glory to Him.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Many a trip continues long after movement in time and space have ceased. – John Steinbeck

Vacation season is upon us.

Many of us will be taking a trip over the summer – trying to make memories and relationships that live beyond the one week we are gone.

Each trip is an opportunity to come back changed a little for the better.

If you are taking a trip this summer – make the most of it.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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I truly believe that everything that we do and everyone that we meet is put in our path for a purpose. There are no accidents; we’re all teachers – if we’re willing to pay attention to the lessons we learn, trust our positive instincts and not be afraid to take risks or wait for some miracle to come knocking at our door. – Marla Gibbs

One of the ideas behind having a growth mindset is looking at the happenings of our lives and thinking – what am I supposed to learn here?

To be patient or aggressive?

To be careful or take a risk?

To rest or get back to work?

We have the opportunity to learn these lessons in our own choices and results. To be sure – personal experience is the most impactful teacher.

But we can also watch and observe others – not to judge them or their character, but to judge whether those actions and choices might benefit us and our situation and circumstances.

Pay attention today, you might just learn something.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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He who knows that enough is enough will always have enough. – Lao Tzu

I don’t know about you, but I need to work on my contentment.

To be able to take a deep breath and find the joy in the moment that I’m currently in.

To be thankful for all my blessings.

If you hear me whining or complaining about anything – call me out on it.

If you even think I might be thinking about it – call me out on it.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Childhood is a short season. – Helen Hayes

Not sure why but childhood and summer are intertwined in my mind.

The idea of this period that seems like it’s lasting forever while you are in the middle of it but it gone so quickly you find yourself wishing it would return.

Make the most of the summer!

Make it a great day.

Jake

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