I know I’ve sent this one before, but I also imagine it always makes Mrs. Davis smile.
Think of a song that would make a loved one smile today.
Find the YouTuber for it and send it them with a note.
Make it a great day.
Jake
I know I’ve sent this one before, but I also imagine it always makes Mrs. Davis smile.
Think of a song that would make a loved one smile today.
Find the YouTuber for it and send it them with a note.
Make it a great day.
Jake
My motto is: Contented with little, yet wishing for more. – Charles Lamb
This a great way to illustrate one of life’s great balancing acts.
Contentment vs ambition.
Take a moment today to do a quick check in with yourself.
How are you doing on this one?
Make it a great day.
Jake
Rough diamonds may sometimes be mistaken for worthless pebbles. – Thomas Browne
I sure felt a little better after reading this one.
It’s easy to get caught up in all of our imperfections and get a little discouraged.
But every single person is a rough diamond.
We all have some areas for improvement, but underneath it all is greatness.
Our own, unique greatness.
Don’t mistake yourself for a worthless pebble.
Don’t buy into the ideas that if you could only lose some weight or buy that thing or take that trip that you would then become worthy or “as much as” someone else or some idealized version of yourself.
Don’t fall into the social media trap of viewing everyone’s highlight reel thinking you are “less than”.
It’s not true! You are a diamond.
Make it a great day.
Jake
Another great life lesson from “The Sandlot” is that you have to go outside to make friends.
At the beginning of the movie the main character’s mom tells him that she wants him to get outside and get into trouble (but not too much).
We all need to get outside in order to accomplish our goals and dreams.
Both metaphorically and literally.
Outside of our comfort zone in order to grow as a person.
Outside of the comfort of home in order to grow our view of the world.
This thought may be even more important in our time than it was for the character in the movie. We have even more opportunity to spend our time inside our comfort zone and comfortable space than others have in the past.
Getting past this layer of insulation from the outside world is essential to becoming all that we were meant to be. We were meant for so much more.
What is one way that you can “go outside” today?
What can you do to change your perspective and grow past where you currently are?
Make it a great day.
Jake
Watched “The Sandlot” with the kids and it reminded me of this email I sent a couple of years back.
Next up in the list of lessons learned from “The Sandlot” – face your fears.
Eventually, Benny decides to face his fear and go in and get the ball back.
Maybe your fears aren’t as seemingly dramatic and life threatening as “The Beast”, but they are probably holding you back just the same.
Maybe you are afraid of what people will think of you.
Maybe you are afraid you will fail.
Maybe you are afraid of having to ask for help.
If your goals and dreams are big enough, they are worth facing your fears.
Concentrate on why it is worth it and then go for it.
Make it a great day.
Jake
A classic summer time anthem.
This one reminds me of the fact that we are the same but different.
We all love summertime. But we all don’t love country music.
I am not a country music fan, but my wife is. She loves this song. Me, not so much.
And yet, despite (or maybe because of) these differences we are perfect for each other.
In life we will constantly be meeting people that are different than us. We can choose to embrace it and find the best in each other or we can judge and condemn.
Make it a great day.
Jake
Each season that comes and goes reminds me of Jim Rohn’s analogy of the seasons of life.
As he talks about summer, he discusses how summertime in life is a unique period of nourishing and defending our gardens.
He talks about not allowing the weeds of life to invade our gardens.
Some things in life can’t be tolerated, they must be decimated.
Some things we need to have a zero tolerance policy towards.
As you think about your life and any weeds that might creep in, what zero tolerance policy should you develop?
Do you need to give up sweets?
Do you need to end a relationship that isn’t good for you?
Do you need to put an end to an addiction that’s holding you back?
Make it a great day.
Jake
Real happiness is cheap enough, yet how dearly we pay for its counterfeit. – Hosea Ballou
Hope this one spurs some thinking today.
What are you paying for that isn’t worth it? Not just in money, but in time as well.
What are you chasing that really won’t make you happy?
Drop it.
Move on.
Focus on the important stuff.
Make it a great day.
Jake
Good is the enemy of great. – Jim Collins
One of the most difficult challenges of life (especially for those of us that are lucky enough to live in America) is that “good” is everywhere. It is easy to fall into the trap of settling for good instead of going for great.
Good is the enemy of great because good is so comfortable. Good lulls us into complacency. Good makes it easy not to go for our best.
And that is where the problem lies. Good means we miss out on great. They can’t coexist. it is one or the other.
Is there an area of your life where you are settling for good instead of great?
Are you avoiding facing the reality that you can be great?
In “Good to Great” Jim ends with a great conclusion.
Over time it is no more difficult (in fact he believes it is easier) to be great than it is to just achieve good results.
Up front it might seem a lot more difficult, but that is a false sense of security.
At Mavidea we are in the process of moving our organization from good to great and I am excited.
I can’t wait to see what the future holds as we become a great company.
I can’t wait to see what the future holds for each of you as you become the great version of yourself.
Make it a great day.
Jake
The natural state of motherhood is unselfishness. When you become a mother, you are no longer the center of your own universe. You relinquish that position to your children. – Jessica Lange
What a great quote about motherhood.
I’ve never been a mother, but it seems to me that there is a magical moment (it happened with our three the moment they were born) where a mother stops being a regular person and starts being a mom.
A moment when a woman makes a decision to always put their little ones needs before their own, or at the very least realizes that that’s how it should be.
In this way, motherhood serves as an example of what human beings are capable of.
By placing the needs of their children first, mothers are capable of amazing things.
Getting very little sleep.
Always eating last.
Eyes in the back of their head.
Holding down two jobs.
Monumental acts of strength while protecting their children.
Mothers serve as proof of how great each of us can be when we live and love selflessly.
Make it a great day.
Jake
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