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Daily Attitude Email 04 17 25

"Our Lord has written the promise of resurrection, not in books alone, but in every leaf in springtime."

– Martin Luther King Jr.

Easter is also a great time to think about all the good of spring.

Spring represents new life and opportunity.

Make the most of this time of renewal.

Renew your spirit, body and mind.

Spend time outside.

Plant something.

Read something inspiring.

Go for a long walk or run.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 04 16 25

The glow of one warm thought is to me worth more than money. – Thomas Jefferson

I like the mental picture – a glowing warm thought.

What if we could fill our minds with this?

What if our first thought when meeting a stranger was like this?

What if our mind was so full of warm thoughts that we let all the little annoyances of life slide by?

Idealistic? Definitely.

Maybe just a few more warm thoughts today than yesterday? That seems doable.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 04 15 25

Tax day! Everybody’s favorite.

In one of Jim Rohn’s talks he talks about taxes.

He talks about how we have to pay for all the stuff we want.

Roads, sidewalks, etc.

We have to pay those soldiers to stand guard for our freedoms.

Do we pay too much? Probably.

Does the government waste some of the money? Probably.

Should we pay less? Probably.

But we do need to pay some. And we should proud to play our little part in making this country great.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 04 14 25

Resending this daily attitude email from a few years ago…

Lord, make me an instrument of Your peace. Where there is hatred, let me sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; where there is sadness, joy.

O, Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; to be understood as to understand; to be loved as to love; For it is in giving that we receive; it is in pardoning that we are pardoned; it is in dying that we are born again to eternal life.

St. Francis of Assisi

Meaghan has this hanging in the office at home where I was working yesterday.

I had the thought, “What if I could really keep this thought in my heart? What if I could actually make this my priority each day?”

It’s easier to spend the day thinking about yourself.

Our own needs and desires are so close and powerful, they are hard to ignore.

This prayer reminds me that true peace, joy, love and happiness happens when I can retrain myself to focus instead on others.

Our opportunities for greatness lie in our ability to serve and love others.

I believe this more and more every day.

I fail at this every day as well, but I’m getting better.

My challenge for you today is to read this prayer out loud to yourself. Then to move on to your day with as much of a focus on others as you can muster. Then try to do better tomorrow.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Friday Morning Toe Tapper

https://youtu.be/TOp_EW-Mirs?si=RoT0-yPUF-y54qCB

FYI – when you see a country song as the toe tapper….assume Meaghan was an influence there somewhere…

Life’s a dance, you learn as you go.

At 46 I’m constantly amazed at how much I still have to learn.

First timer with sending a kid to college.

First timer having two drivers in the house.

First timer in so many ways…

One piece of advice for this dynamic of life – stay curious.

If you’re interested and curious – all the opportunities to learn will be much easier to embrace.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 04 10 25

Big day at the Davis house – Annie turns 16 today.

If all goes well, she’ll get her license today and will take another milestone step on her way to adulthood.

As a parent it’s easy to be proud of our kids as they cross over life’s milestones.

As kids we seem to pass them pretty frequently. Every couple of years is another milestone.

As an adult though, they tend to spread out. Years can go by without seeing one along the way.

Goals are a good addition – setting meaningful goals and celebrating accomplishments can serve as milestones for us as we move along life’s path.

Set yourself a meaningful goal – one that can stand out as a milestone to look forward to and back on when’s it’s over.

Make it a great day.

Jake

PS – Annie’s super awesome and I love her lots and lots.

Daily Attitude Email 04 08 25

“It is no use saying to the tired ‘mental muscles’… ‘I will give you a good rest,’ ‘I will go for a long walk,’ or ‘I will lie down and think of nothing.’ The mind keeps busy just the same. If it has been weighing and measuring, it goes on weighing and measuring. If it has been worrying, it goes on worrying…It is useless to argue with the mind in this condition…A gifted American psychologist has said, ‘worry is a spasm of the emotion; the mind catches hold to something and will not let it go.’ One can only gently insinuate something else into its convulsive grasp. And if this something else is rightly chosen, if it is really attended by the illumination of another field of interest, gradually, and often quite swiftly, the old undue grip relaxes and the process of recuperation and repair begins.” – Winston Churchill

Our mind works best when it is given periods of rest and distraction.

Worry and anxiety arise when we can’t stop thinking about something and don’t get any rest or distraction from those thoughts.

Find an engaging hobby. Engage your mental capacities in something besides worry and anxiousness.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 04 07 25

The best thing one can do when it’s raining is to let it rain. – Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

God grant me the serenity

to accept the things I cannot change;

courage to change the things I can;

and wisdom to know the difference.

This quote and the prayer above are reminders that there is a lot in life that we don’t control.

It’s a reminder that our efforts are best spent on the things we can change.

And that we should seek the courage and wisdom to do the hard work of making that change.

Make it a great day.

PS – the rest of the Serentiy Prayer –

Living one day at a time;

enjoying one moment at a time;

accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;

taking, as He did, this sinful world

as it is, not as I would have it;

trusting that He will make all things right

if I surrender to His Will;

that I may be reasonably happy in this life

and supremely happy with Him

forever in the next.

Amen.

Reinhold Niebuhr (1892-1971)