When your child spills their milk, they don’t need a lecture, they need a rag.

While this quote is about parenting, I think it is pretty easy to see how we might apply it in our adult relationships as well.

Most people don’t need us to point out their mistakes, they are all too aware of them. They probably even obsess a little over them.

Instead, they need a hand.

Our co-workers don’t need a lesson on good organizational skills after they dropped the ball with that client, they need help balancing a heavy workload.

Our spouses don’t need a lecture about cleanliness after they left the dirty clothes on the floor again, they need a hand with the chores.

Our friends don’t need a lecture on what kind of diet to go on, they need a friend to go to the gym with.

And our kids don’t need a lecture when they spill the milk, they need a rag.

Look for an opportunity this week to stop lecturing and jump in and help.

Make it a great day.

Jake ​

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Back to school time.

This song was a funny reminder for me to be thankful for all those that work to make sure that our two little ones have a great experience at school.

Even if you don’t have little ones in school, I am sure we all have a teacher or coach or someone through our school years that positively impacted our lives.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Big day at the Davis house today – first day of School.

Maggie starts third grade and Annie starts kindergarten.

A word that keeps popping into my head this morning is adventure.

Websters defines adventure as an exciting or remarkable experience. I sincerely hope that that describes part of what our two little kiddos will experience this year at school.

Are you on an adventure?

Are you excited about the experiences in your life?

Are you remarking to others about your experiences?

If you answered no to those two, maybe you need a little adventure in your life. Seek adventure out. It is all around us.

Make it a great day.

Jake

In Andy Stanley’s latest series, he is going through the process of decision making and how to make better decision’s in your life.

In this week’s edition he suggests asking yourself a question. What story do I want to tell?

When facing an important decision, he suggests looking into the future and asking this question to help clarify what you are really deciding.

Some examples….

When it comes to your finances, what story do you want to tell?

When it comes to your health and fitness, what story do you want to tell?

When it comes to your family and your closest relationships, what story do you want to tell?

These are just to get you thinking a little. Thinking of the story you want to tell is beginning with the end in mind. Everything becomes clearer when you can attach a story to it.

I encourage you today to not only think about what stories you want to tell, I encourage you to write them down. Then start making decisions that align with those stories.

We are all writing the story of our life everyday by the decisions we make.​ Let’s do our best to write the story we want to tell.

Make it a great day.

Jake

​If you have time to lean, you have time to clean.

We have all probably heard this at one point. It’s a classic dad line. Or maybe your first job at a restaurant or the factory.

Maybe a slightly different angle on this would be that if you are looking for something to do, serve someone else.

Any time you are wondering what to do next, think about what would be of the most service to someone.

We could train our minds to be constantly looking for an opportunity to be of service.

Challenge for today – find one small extra service you could do for someone.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Good working habit number 4 from "How to Stop Worrying" – learn to organize, deputize and supervise.

We can’t do it all.​ We all need the help of others to get where we want to go.

For the most part, others are willing to pitch in and help us along our way. We need only ask.

This represents another of life’s paradoxes: part of the giving process is also being willing to receive.

In order to be the best servant to others we must also be willing to be served.

We must give others the opportunity to grow through service as well.

Is there something that you need help on, but just haven’t been able to ask?

Ask. Today.

Make it a great day.

Jake

BAD – What you are is God’s gift to you. What you make of yourself is your gift to God. – Carly Fiorina

JW – Go figure it out and don’t call me. – Bill Hybel’s father

MS – The kindest form of management is the truth. – Jack Welch

EB – The only real payoff for a leader is eternal. – Patrick Lencioni

JD – Great leadership is relentlessly developmental. – Bill Hybels

Today’s quotes are everyone’s favorites from day one of the Global Leadership Summit yesterday.

Make it a great day.

Jake ​

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What a great reminder for us all. Everybody is a bit of a fixer-upper.

And the way to fix things up is with love.

Each of us was once a baby full of all the endless possibilities that come packed into a human life.

But along the way we made a series of good and bad choices.

We had a series of good and bad relationships.

We made good and bad food and exercise choices.

We made good and bad financial decisions.

And along the way we all became a bit of a fixer-upper.

Embrace the fixer-upper in all of us. Liberally apply all the love you have on the fixer-uppers in your life.

Make it a great day.

Jake ​

Good working habit number 3 from How to Stop Worrying: if you have all the information to make a decision, make it now.

Letting a decision stew drags us down and saps away our mental energy.

When combined with working on only one problem at a a time, this tip can drastically improve our productivity.

Think about what is weighing on you right now.

Is there something on your list that needs a decision?

Carefully consider it, then make the decision today.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Number 2 on the list of good working habits from "How to Stop Worrying":​ do things in the order of their importance.

I don’t think this idea comes as new information to any of you receiving this email today, but we all need a reminder every now and then.

Too much of our mental energy is wasted on trying to bounce from task to task, trying to do it all.

Focus on the task at hand not only makes us more productive, it relieves a lot of the stress associated with trying to do too many things.

Since we all had such a positive experience yesterday with cleaning our desks, let’s try to follow this advice today.

Write down your top 5 tasks for today in order of importance, then get started on number one.

Make it a great day.

Jake