Rule 2: Take care of yourself, the way you would take care of someone else. – Jordan Peterson from “The 12 Rules for Life”.

Imagine if there was some crazy new system where you were actually in charge of someone else’s life.

You got to choose how they spent their time, what they ate, whether they exercised, their inner monologue, all of it.

How would treat that person?

What would do to make sure that person was happy?

Now imagine you loved that person. That you would do anything to make them happy. Not happy like the commercials say we should be. But full of joy.

That person is you.

You are supposed to take care of yourself. Jim Rohn calls it “enlightened self interest”. You take care of yourself so that you can make the greatest impact.

You are worth it.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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If you do not conquer self, you will be conquered by self. – Napoleon Hill

Reminder for the week.

Most of our battle lies within.

Let go of your selfishness and embrace service with love.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Time to get thankful.

There is so much to be thankful for.

Are there problems? Of course.

Worries and concerns? Yep, plenty.

But there is plenty to be thankful for as well.

You get more of what you focus on.

You get to choose.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Resending this daily attitude email from a while back….maybe because I needed to read it again.

God loves each of us as if there were only one of us. – Saint Augustine

The Bible tells that God has counted the hairs on our heads and has knitted us together in our mother’s womb.

God loves you as if you were the only one.

He was overjoyed with you when you got that A+ on that second grade spelling test.

His heart broke with yours when that friend you thought you could trust did that thing that hurt so bad.

He watched in disappointment when you cheated on that Algebra test in 9th grade.

His eyes filled with tears that time you turned your back on him in college because it wasn’t the “cool” thing to do.

His heart leapt with joy when your first baby was born and you became a mother.

He was there when the doctor gave you the news that changed things forever.

He fills your heart with conviction when you break that promise that “you’d never” for the 10th time in the last year.

He sat with you when you couldn’t believe that you would never see them again.

He is full of hope and pulls closer when you can’t see a way out.

He LOVES YOU with everything He has – every day, all day.

It’s not always fun. It’s heartbreaking one minute and full of joy the next, but he never stops. There is nothing you can do to get Him to stop – nothing.

He wants all of you, all of the time – for you. For your joy, your benefit and your eternal salvation.

How lucky are you? Let love pull you closer to your Creator. To the one who loves you no matter what.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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The way to get things done is not to mind who gets the credit for doing them. – Benjamin Jowett

What a great thought.

Just get it done.

Who cares who gets the credit.

Let’s get to work.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears. – Marcus Aurelius

Some things in life I think of as “fool’s gold” – this quote hits on one of them.

Spending our time identifying whose fault it is and how they have not done right by us is fool’s gold.

It’s easy to find fault. To judge. To see how someone has wronged us.

We can focus on this and find plenty of material – there is no shortage of shortcomings.

If we can let it go though, we find out that it wasn’t really worth worrying about in the first place.

It all disappears. Fool’s gold. No real value after all that.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Veterans Day is today.

The last line of the “Band of Brothers” HBO series has always stuck with me.

They ended with interviews with the actual veterans.

The last one told the story of his grandson asking if he had been a hero in the war.

“No, but I served with some.”

Wow. It takes a lot of character to conduct yourself like that.

We should all be proud of the legacy left by the great men and women in our armed forces and those who are currently serving.

Thank a veteran today.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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We had an election.

There appears to be a clear winner.

We can hopefully move forward together to make things better.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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"As we work to create light for others, we naturally light our own way." — Mary Anne Radmacher

One of the interesting little quirks of life is that we find our way when we get out of our own selfish desires.

When we are in service with love the path becomes clearer. The obstacles easier to avoid or overcome. The goals easier to obtain.

Focus on the service.

Service isn’t some once a year couple of hours at a charity thing kind of event.

It’s an all day every day kind of thing. Breakfast for the kids. Helping a client. Double checking that thing to make sure it was done right for a coworker. A kind word to the waitress at lunch. The dishes after dinner. Tucking the kiddos in tight.

Opportunities to server abound.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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The only courage that matters is the kind that gets you from one moment to the next. – Mignon McLaughlin

CS Lewis describes courage as the testing ground for all our other virtue. Each virtue requires courage in its application.

I generally write these emails the night before and schedule them for the next morning. As I write this, the election has not been decided.

Regardless of how it turns out – my hope is that we will all have the courage to do the right thing in response to the results.

To have the courage to live out the virtues that matter most to us.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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