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Daily Attitude Email 07 23 24

The more sand that has escaped from the hourglass of our life, the clearer we should see through it. – Jean Paul

Time and experience have a way of clarifying things.

What to do and what not to do.

Who to spend more time with and who to spend less time with.

What to spend money and time on and what to ignore.

If you haven’t gained experience yet – ask someone who has.

Got some experience under your belt? Write some things down. Reflect and observe on what has worked and what has not worked.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Daily Attitude Email 07 22 24

No parent is perfect; we all can look back and think of things we could’ve done to help our children be better prepared for adulthood. And sometimes it’s best to admit it to them and encourage them to learn from our mistakes. – Billy Graham

Maggie turned 18 on Saturday. The list of things I’ve fallen short on in preparing her for adulthood has made itself more and more clear as she’s approached this milestone (that, and moving to college soon).

So many things I wish I could say or do to get her ready.

So many things I wish I had said or done differently.

When I think of where and how I have fallen short – I try to think of it like looking in the mirror.

I should face the results of my choices and the results I’ve created – but not focus on it to the exclusion of getting to work on the next best action I can take.

If we spend our lives looking in the mirror – whether it be for vanity, narcissism, or regretting our mistakes – we will miss out on what we are really here for – to be of service with love.

Maggie turned 18 – time to learn how I messed up – then get focused on this next stage of life – supporting a young woman as she makes her way in the world.

Wish me luck.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Friday Morning Toe Tapper

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What’s love got to do with it?

I know it’s not the message of this song, but I keep thinking that somehow we as a nation need to figure out how to get more love involved.

The election coming up seems to have everyone flibber flabbered even more than usual. With both sides seemingly more and more upset and angry.

When it came to the point that someone decided to take a shot at Trump and killed another and injured more, it’s obviously gone too far.

When I try to add more love for those around me in my life I try to remember that everyone is someone’s son or daughter. They are someone’s spouse. They are someone’s friend, uncle, cousin, aunt or whatever. They came into this world with a need to be loved and never outgrew it.

Even the meanest Democrat/Republican you can think of.

Life is just too short to not fill it with love for the people around us.

It all starts with us and the people in our lives. We love them more and they can love others more and on it goes.

I’m sure this is all too idealistic or whatever, but we have to start somewhere and I can’t think of anything better so that’s what I’m going to try.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Daily Attitude Email 07 18 24

Patience is the companion of wisdom. – Saint Augustine

Simple reminder today.

Growing in wisdom takes time.

But it’s worth the wait.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Daily Attitude Email 07 17 24

Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody expects of you. Never excuse yourself. – Henry Ward Beecher

Sometimes I wonder if much of our anxiety and worry is caused by not meeting our standards.

We tell ourselves we are going to exercise, eat better, quit doing this or start doing that.

And then we don’t follow through.

This turns into a bad mental loop where we think we can’t follow through on anything or don’t have the willpower to do what we say we are going to do.

Some tricks I feel like I’ve seen work for others:

Be careful on what you tell yourself you are going to do. Don’t be frivolous or impulsive. Thoughtfully consider what you are committing to.

Start small.

Be gentle with your internal self talk. Be careful of the thoughts you allow to dominate your thoughts.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Daily Attitude Email 07 16 24

History is a vast early warning system. – Norman Cousins

History is a great place to learn about what can and will happen based on the patterns observed over time.

This is true generically and philosophically and culturally.

But it’s also true in our lives and the lives we observe around us.

Think about the histories you have observed with yourself and those around you.

Given the histories you have observed – is there something you should stop eating?

Given the histories you have observed – is there something you should stop spending money on?

Given the histories you have observed – is there somewhere else you should look for happiness and joy?

Give the histories you have observer – is there a better way to spend your time?

We can all learn from the vast early warning system around us – we need only pay attention.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Daily Attitude Email 07 15 24

Saturday’s assassination attempt on former President Trump will be something not soon forgotten.

Our pastor yesterday spent the service talking through how we as Christians can respond to this event and be a part of moving in a more positive direction.

I’m sincerely hopeful that this event will be a turning point – one in which we as a country can decide to not let it go this far.

That we can all be more civil in our discourse.

That love can be the starting point of our desires for change and our engagement in conversations with our fellow citizens.

That we can be known for our ability to come together as a nation instead of being torn apart.

Hopefully we can all join in prayer for our nation, the person who was killed, those injured and our political leaders.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Friday Morning Toe Tapper

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Went to Dolly World this week so I thought it would be appropriate to share this Dolly Parton song.

After listening to it though – I’m sincerely hoping that no one at our little companies feel this way about their job.

We’ve always set out to make our businesses a great place to work and be a part of.

Someplace where everyone can move their careers and the lives forward.

It hasn’t always been a rousing success. We’ve made our fair share of mistakes.

But I can tell you in all honesty that we’ve tried every step of the way to make it a great place to be.

I hope that all of you understand that we mean it. But we can’t do it alone.

You are a part of making everything better. For yourselves and your teammates. No one succeeds on their own.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Daily Attitude Email 07 11 24

Below is an excerpt from “The Strangest Secret” by Earl Nightingale.

In case you don’t want to take the time to read, here is a quick summary:

What you sow, you will reap.

Thoughts are the sowing of the mind.

The mind will grow whatever is planted – in a multiplied kind of way.

Sow wisely.

Make it a great day.

Jake

An excerpt from

The Strangest Secret

by Earl Nightingale

George Bernard Shaw said, “People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don’t believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can’t find them, make them.”

Well, it’s pretty apparent, isn’t it? And every person who discovered this believed (for a while) that he was the first one to work it out. We become what we think about.

Now, it stands to reason that a person who is thinking about a concrete and worthwhile goal is going to reach it, because that’s what he’s thinking about. And we become what we think about.

Conversely, the person who has no goal, who doesn’t know where he’s going, and whose thoughts must therefore be thoughts of confusion, anxiety, fear and worry—his life becomes one of frustration, fear, anxiety and worry. And if he thinks about nothing…he becomes nothing.

How does it work? Why do we become what we think about? Well, I’ll tell you how it works, as far as we know. To do this, I want to tell you about a situation that parallels the human mind.

Suppose a farmer has some land, and it’s good, fertile land. The land gives the farmer a choice; he may plant in that land whatever he chooses. The land doesn’t care. It’s up to the farmer to make a decision.

We’re comparing the human mind with the land because the mind, like the land, doesn’t care what you plant in it. It will return what you plant, but it doesn’t care what you plant.

Now, let’s say that the farmer has two seeds in his hand—one is a seed of corn, the other is nightshade, a deadly poison. He digs two little holes in the earth and he plants both seeds—one corn, the other nightshade. He covers up the holes, waters and takes care of the land…and what will happen? Invariably, the land will return what was planted. As it’s written in the Bible,

“As ye sow, so shall ye reap.”

Remember, the land doesn’t care. It will return poison in just as wonderful abundance as it will corn. So up come the plants—one corn, one poison. The human mind is far more fertile, far more incredible and mysterious than the land, but it works the same way. It doesn’t care what we plant…success…or failure. A concrete, worthwhile goal…or confusion, misunderstanding, fear, anxiety, and so on. But what we plant it must return to us.

You see, the human mind is the last great, unexplored continent on earth. It contains riches beyond our wildest dreams. It will return anything we want to plant.

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Daily Attitude Email 07 10 24

Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan Press On! has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race.  

J. Calvin Coolidge,

30th President of the United States of America

In all the stories of success there is a moment when they decided to keep going.

Despite the odds and obstacles they pressed on.

I think the key to being able to press on is having big goals.

Big goals pull you through the problems you will inevitably face along the way.

Make sure you have big goals for yourself. Make sure it is big enough that you are almost embarrassed to say it out loud to your closest friend.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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