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Daily Attitude Email 01 03 24

Resending this daily attitude email from last year at this time….

When the New Year comes around, you hear a lot about New Year’s resolutions.

Most of what is written is about how to set the goals better, how to increase your chances, etc.

They all start out with some statistic about how some really high percentage of resolutions are dropped by the end of January (86% of statistics are made up on the spot).

It almost seems like their goal is to either have you do it their way or just skip it.

Not me. Not this year.

Set some New Year’s resolutions.

Set a lot of them if you feel like it.

Don’t focus on the statistics that say 90% won’t make it, focus on the 10% that will.

Think positive.

You got this.

No reason you can’t be in the 10%.

And if you don’t make it, I’m sure you will be better off anyway.

If you need any help – check out what Kid President has to say – https://youtu.be/GQOcEDD5hR8.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Daily Attitude Email 01 02 24

And now we welcome the new year. Full of things that have never been. – Rainer Maria Rilke

This year doesn’t have to be like last year.

In fact – it’s pretty unlikely that things will be the same.

Different in which direction…maybe that you have some influence on…

Choose wisely.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Friday Morning Toe Tapper

https://youtu.be/xSzU9Geg6jA?si=RErpYX-wMeYsWUll

This will be our year!

Or maybe it won’t be…all kinds of things can and will happen.

We get to decide how to react to them.

What kind of person we want to be – when things go well and when things don’t go well.

Also – we might as well do everything we can to make it a great year. To move, think and grow in a positive direction. To focus our thoughts, actions and habits on getting better each day. To serve others in love.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Daily Attitude Email 12 28 23

I’m not sure why, but I can’t believe how often I need to be reminded “It’s not about you!”

What if we looked at the New Year this way?

A year of “it’s not about me!”

Time to focus on others and how we can be of service.

A list of goals – not one of which is focused on me.

A “word of the year” that had nothing to do with me and where I wanted to go.

A SMART goal filter than included “is it about you? No seriously…is it?”

Ok, maybe that’s a little extreme. Maybe just one goal focused on others?

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Daily Attitude Email 12 27 23

https://www.facebook.com/TED/videos/301143869492725/?mibextid=MC4RXT

I saw this really good video a while back and made a note to send it out at some point.

It felt like something that might help somebody who saw it and just happened to need to hear it.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Daily Attitude Email 12 26 23

Well, Christmas is over.

The gifts are unwrapped. The dinner has been eaten. Some of us have even taken down the tree already.

What’s next?

Go back to how things were before Christmas?

Focus on continuing the feelings of love, generosity, kindness, etc. that Christmas inspired?

Let’s work together to keep the spirit going. To make things a little more bright.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Daily Attitude Email 12 21 23

I try to remember to share the story below each Christmas….in case any of you don’t believe in Santa.

Always remember that you are on Santa’s team.

Merry Christmas.

Jake

My grandma taught me everything about Christmas. I was just a kid. I remember tearing across town on my bike to visit her on the day my big sister dropped the bomb: "There is no Santa Claus," jeered my sister. "Even dummies know that!"

My grandma was not the gushy kind, never had been. I fled to her that day because I knew she would be straight with me. I knew Grandma always told the truth, and I knew that the truth always went down a whole lot easier when swallowed with one of her world-famous cinnamon buns.

Grandma was home, and the buns were still warm. Between bites, I told her everything. She was ready for me.

"No Santa Claus!" she snorted. "Ridiculous! Don’t believe it. That rumor has been going around for years, and it makes me mad, plain mad. Now, put on your coat, and let’s go."

"Go? Go where, Grandma?" I asked. I hadn’t even finished my second cinnamon bun.

"Where" turned out to be Kerby’s General Store, the one store in town that had a little bit of just about everything. As we walked through its doors, Grandma handed me ten dollars. That was a bundle in those days.

"Take this money," she said, "and buy something for someone who needs it. I’ll wait for you in the car." Then she turned and walked out of Kerby’s.

I was only eight years old. I’d often gone shopping with my mother, but never had I shopped for anything all by myself. The store seemed big and crowded, full of people scrambling to finish their Christmas shopping. For a few moments I just stood there, confused, clutching that ten-dollar bill, wondering what to buy, and who on earth to buy it for. I thought of everybody I knew: my family, my friends, my neighbors, the kids at school, the people who went to my church.

I was just about thought out, when I suddenly thought of Bobbie Decker. He was a kid with bad breath and messy hair, and he sat right behind me in Mrs. Pollock’s grade-two class. Bobbie Decker didn’t have a coat. I knew that because he never went out for recess during the winter. His mother always wrote a note, telling the teacher that he had a cough; but all we kids knew that Bobbie Decker didn’t have a cough, and he didn’t have a coat.

I fingered the ten-dollar bill with growing excitement. I would buy Bobbie Decker a coat. I settled on a red corduroy one that had a hood to it. It looked real warm, and he would like that. I didn’t see a price tag, but ten dollars ought to buy anything. I put the coat and my ten-dollar bill on the counter and pushed them toward the lady behind it.

She looked at the coat, the money, and me. "Is this a Christmas present for someone?" she asked kindly. "Yes," I replied shyly. "It’s … for Bobbie. He’s in my class, and he doesn’t have a coat." The nice lady smiled at me. I didn’t get any change, but she put the coat in a bag and wished me a Merry Christmas.

That evening, Grandma helped me wrap the coat in Christmas paper and ribbons, and write, "To Bobbie, From Santa Claus" on it … Grandma said that Santa always insisted on secrecy.

Then she drove me over to Bobbie Decker’s house, explaining as we went that I was now and forever officially one of Santa’s helpers. Grandma parked down the street from Bobbie’s house, and she and I crept noiselessly and hid in the bushes by his front walk.

Suddenly, Grandma gave me a nudge. "All right, Santa Claus," she whispered, "get going."

I took a deep breath, dashed for his front door, threw the present down on his step, pounded his doorbell twice and flew back to the safety of the bushes and Grandma. Together we waited breathlessly in the darkness for the front door to open. Finally it did, and there stood Bobbie. He looked down, looked around, picked up his present, took it inside and closed the door.

Forty years haven’t dimmed the thrill of those moments spent shivering, beside my grandma, in Bobbie Decker’s bushes. That night, I realized that those awful rumors about Santa Claus were just what Grandma said they were: Ridiculous!

Santa was alive and well … AND WE WERE ON HIS TEAM!

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Daily Attitude Email 12 20 23

"So God throws open the door of this world — and enters as a baby. As the most vulnerable imaginable. Because He wants unimaginable intimacy with you. What religion ever had a god that wanted such intimacy with us that He came with such vulnerability to us? What God ever came so tender we could touch Him? So fragile that we could break Him? So vulnerable that His bare, beating heart could be hurt? Only the One who loves you to death."

Ann Voskamp

The central theme of Christmas is love.

Hold tightly to that thought over the next few days.

Don’t let it get lost in all the other comings and goings.

Make it your own central theme as you go about your days.

Merry Christmas.

Jake

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Daily Attitude Email 12 19 23

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.” – CS Lewis

For some, the Christmas and holiday season are a bleak reminder of a broken heart.

A time of loneliness and melancholy for loved ones no longer with us.

A time to wish for one more chance, one more memory, one more “I love you” or “Merry Christmas”.

Sadness and heartache are real.

They are a price to be paid for loving another human being.

When I think of others going through times like this, I always go back to this quote from CS Lewis.

I’m not sure why it has to work like this, but I believe he explains how it does work.

We must choose between allowing our hearts to harden and turn to stone, or wade into the dangerous waters of vulnerability.

I know this is easier said than done and that compared to a broken heart some may wish for a heart of stone, but my sincerest wish is that even the broken hearted can find hope in CS Lewis’s words.

Hope and faith that real love is worth the heart ache. That a heart of stone is something we would not wish on our worst enemies.

This is part of the magic of Christmas. We are reminded to believe in love. To hope for what can be and to have faith that love will win out in the end.

As a Christian, this is the true meaning of Christmas. God loved us. God sent his son to live and then die on the cross in exchange for us. Love, God and Jesus won out in the end.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Daily Attitude Email 12 18 23

I like to compare the holiday season with the way a child listens to a favorite story. The pleasure is in the familiar way the story begins, the anticipation of familiar turns it takes, the familiar moments of suspense, and the familiar climax and ending.

Fred Rogers

What a great way to describe the holiday season.

Let’s enjoy the anticipation around the familiar turns of the Christmas season.

Decorating the house.

Shopping for presents.

Christmas plays and programs.

Our favorite Christmas movies.

Christmas church.

Wrapping and opening presents.

Quiet time with loved ones after all the hullabaloo.

Whatever your familiar moments, enjoy them.

Make it a great Christmas season.

Jake

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