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Daily Attitude Email 10 21 25

Just listened to a podcast talking about this quote from a daily attitude email from a few years ago.

Imagine yourself as a living house. God comes in to rebuild that house. At first, perhaps, you can understand what He is doing. He is getting the drains right and stopping the leaks in the roof and so on; you knew that those jobs needed doing and so you are not surprised. But presently He starts knocking the house about in a way that hurts abominably and does not seem to make any sense. What on earth is He up to? The explanation is that He is building quite a different house from the one you thought of throwing out a new wing here, putting on an extra floor there, running up towers, making courtyards. You thought you were being made into a decent little cottage: but He is building a palace. He intends to come and live in it Himself.
C.S. Lewis
This year so far feels like we are going through some growing pains at the businesses. Processes arent perfect and growth causes those imperfections to manifest themselves in mistakes or missed expectations.
This quote reminds me of our growth as individuals.
At first changing seems like a good idea. Even as something we would welcome.
Then it takes on a life of its own.
Some of our cherished stories about ourselves and the world need to come down. We have to become uncomfortable.
In the case of a Christian life this takes on the perspective of eternity. We are building our forever selves. A version of ourselves that is meant to commune with God in eternal happiness.
Make it a great day.
Jake

Daily Attitude Email 10 20 25

The gain is not the having of children; it is the discovery of love and how to be loving. – Polly Berrien Berends

What a great phrase to describe the loving relationships in our lives.

The gain is in the discovery of love and how to be loving.

How to put someone else first and to think of their needs before our own.

How to love them despite their flaws and issues.

How to wish for the best for them when they make both good and bad decisions.

I’m convinced we are treat everyone like this. Literally everyone.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 10 15 25

The load, or weight, or burden of my neighbor’s glory should be laid daily on my back, a load so heavy that only humility can carry it, and the backs of the proud will be broken. – CS Lewis

As a follow up to the “love your neighbor” emails – CS Lewis has a great way of explaining it.

Our goal should be our neighbor’s glory.

And the weight of that should be so much that we have no choice to be humbled in our attempts to achieve it.

Only with God’s help will we be able to properly orient ourselves to the goal of neighbor’s glory.

In the Bible it says “my yoke is light” (paraphrased) – by working together with God, the load is lightened.

When we take up the yoke of our own glory or our own happiness our backs will be broken under the weight.

When we give up our lives in service through love we will gain it all and more back.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 10 14 25

Stop worrying about what other people think about you. Starting working on what you think about other people.

I wrote this down a few months ago, I’m sure I got it from someone else but forgot to write that part down.

We fall into the trap of worrying and considering too much what everyone else thinks about us.

We’d be better off thinking more about what we think of others.

Thinking thoughts of love, grace and gratitude will yield much better results.

Figure out ways to serve and put others first.

Find time to pray for others.

Make it a point to add joy and peace wherever you go.

In turn, you’re life will be so much more full.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 10 13 25

Following the light of the sun, we left the Old World. – Christopher Columbus

Meaghan’s grandmother was known for saying “Columbus took a chance, so should I” (especially while playing cards).

Leaving the Old World was a risk.

And the best part was that what he found was something he didn’t think he was going to find.

He set out for one destination and instead found something else – something he couldn’t have imagined.

The same can happen for us. If we take a chance and move forward towards positive change, we must just end up somewhere we couldn’t have imagined.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 10 09 25

Love your neighbor as you love yourself. – Jesus

In one of the all time classic Bible stories, Jesus is asked “but who is my neighbor?” after telling a group to “love thy neighbor".

Most people know the story of the good Samaritan.

It’s easy to just think about it as “the nice guy who helped his neighbor”.

But the story has a little nuance – the Samaritans were a people that the Jewish people of Jesus day strongly disliked. They didn’t want to be in the same room with them, let alone think of them as good.

In today’s age, we could update it a little to something like….

The Good Democrat (or Republican)….

The Good Conservative (or Liberal)…..

The Good Weird Young Person with Too Many Piercings, Colored Hair, etc…..

The Good Poor Person (or Rich Person)….

Jesus’ point was that our neighbor was an inclusive idea. We are to love all of them. Even those we disagree with. He even later tells us to “turn the other cheek” and to “give up our clothes if someone steals them from us”.

I think he was trying to get us to focus on our heart, not on what others may or may not do. Our role is to assume the right heart posture – to love our neighbor.

Make it a great day.

Jake