Without labor nothing prospers. – Sophocles
Labor is good.
Don’t get fooled into believing the goal is not to labor.
Make it a great day.
Jake
Without labor nothing prospers. – Sophocles
Labor is good.
Don’t get fooled into believing the goal is not to labor.
Make it a great day.
Jake
"Success is not the result of spontaneous combustion. You must set yourself on fire." — Arnold H. Glasow
Monday morning reminder – no one is coming to get you started and get you moving.
It’s up to you.
Get up.
Get moving.
Make progress.
You got this.
Make it a great day.
Jake
https://youtu.be/b8VoUYtx0kw?si=DZAZpITFr1NuRQ3G
In life – we’ll all need to be an overcomer.
We are going to face difficulties.
It’s going to get dark.
But we can get through it.
God is with us always. Especially in the darkest of hours.
Make it a great day.
Jake
There are a thousand hacking at the branches of evil to one who is striking at the root. – Henry David Thoreau
We tend to do this in our lives as well.
We hack away at all the little things we need to improve on or want to be different.
Instead, look for the root.
Why do I feel this way?
Why do I turn to food?
Why do I spend money without thinking?
Why do I skip the exercise?
Hard questions to be sure.
It doesn’t mean you can’t figure it out and fix it though.
Make it a great day.
Jake
Dreams will get you nowhere, a good kick in the pants will take you a long way. – Baltasar Gracian
Reminder for today – get started!
Don’t dilly dally any more – get going already!
Make it a great day.
Jake
Marriages, like careers, need constant nurturing… the secret of having it all is loving it all. – Joyce Brothers
This is true of all of our relationships.
They are work.
They are hard.
They aren’t easy.
But if we love it all – they joys and the pains – we can have it all.
Make it a great day.
Jake
Nobody ever drowned in his own sweat. – Ann Landers
This reminds me of saying Earl Anderson used to always say – “The best way to kill time is to work it to death.”
Hard work is important.
Work smart is a good idea. Work life balance is a great idea. Not falling victim to being busy all the time is a good idea. Smelling the roses is good.
But all this wisdom really only applies if you’re willing to spend a decent chunk of your time working hard.
Jim Rohn says “make rest a necessity, not an objective”.
Work hard then rest.
Work hard then smell the roses.
Work hard then take a vacation.
Being action and work oriented is an advantage that is hard to beat.
Make it a great day.
Jake
https://youtu.be/dguz0IsCuKU?si=MYKf4_aNZWnkyloT
We all go through tough times.
Times when it all seems dark and there’s nowhere to turn.
This song is a good reminder that brighter days are ahead.
It’s always darkest before the dawn.
Make it a great day.
Jake
A daily attitude email from a few years ago…
We are little flames poorly sheltered by frail walls against the storm of dissolution and madness, in which we flicker and sometimes almost go out we creep in upon ourselves and with big eyes stare into the night and thus we wait for morning.
Erich Maria Remarque, All Quiet on the Western Front
They are more to me than life, these voices, they are more than motherliness and more than fear; they are the strongest, most comforting thing there is anywhere: they are the voices of my comrades.
Erich Maria Remarque, All Quiet on the Western Front
I’ve been reading All Quiet on the Western Front lately (probably time for a break from the war stories). Its difficult reading.
These two quotes reminded me of the book.
One showing the madness that is war.
One showing the unique bonds forged in battle.
I’m not sure about you, but I have a hard time with the whole maturity and not complaining thing.
Its all too easy to complain and moan about some small inconvenience in my life instead of being the mature, accountable, adult I should be.
But books like this tend to sober me up pretty well.
I’ve got it pretty good compared to a rat infested trench a hundred yards or so away from people shooting at me with machine guns and trying to drop shells on my head..for months.
And those are the lucky ones. The unlucky ones are injured or dead.
And those are just the soldiers (thank God for soldiers).
What about the single mothers?
What about the cancer patients?
What about those with meaningful struggles of all kinds?
I’m thankful for the stories of real struggles shared over the years. They put my little problems into perspective.
Ending my little pity parties doesn’t seem quite noble enough an end for stories such as these, though, right?
In the end, I (and hopefully this is a we and I’m not the only one, if its just me, somebody tell me quick) must honor the sacrifices and struggles of others by doing our best to leave this place better than we found it. To make a difference for others through service with love.
Make it a great day.
Jake
The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others. – Mahatma Gandhi
Yesterday we were lucky enough to volunteer with our small group and put on a tea party for some foster kids.
Every time I’ve done something like that I’m reminded that being of service to others is a pretty good way to spend a day.
Seeing the smiles on their faces and working together with the group was a great experience.
We all have this opportunity every day.
To serve those around us – loved ones, coworkers, customers, etc.
We can have and be more if we can learn to serve more – with love.
Make it a great day.
Jake
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