First day of school for the Davis kids. I went looking for a quote or old daily attitude email about making the most of today and cherishing the moment and found the one below.

As the kids get older – being present and cherishing the moments becomes more and more clearly important as time goes by.

"I think that surviving those we love must be among life’s worst experiences. My uncle Ken Hayward – a man of wisdom and courage who, in his eighty-three-year lifetime, led squadrons of men through countless air battles and city councils through difficult change – has just buried an aged five-pound dog. And he is distraught beyond belief."

This line from "An American Caddie in St. Andrews" by Oliver Horovitz really stuck with me.

Something we all have in common is that we will "survive someone we love" at some point. And, I suppose, we will all find ourselves "distraught beyond belief" as well.

There is a positive side to this realization.

We can remember to be thankful for those we love.

We can cherish our memories and create new ones that will live with us forever.

We can slow down and bend down for that all important conversation with a bouncing 5 year old.

We can tell those we love that we love, right now.

No one is guaranteed tomorrow. We all must make the most of today.

Make the most of today.

Jake​

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The old cathedrals are good, but the great blue dome that hangs over everything is better. – Thomas Carlyle

Simple but good idea in this one – there is beauty in nature and the world around us – if we look for it.

Be on the lookout today.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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https://youtu.be/RwlhUcSGqgs

Hopefully I can remember to send this out each year around the time school starts.

My favorite line from listening to it this year – What are you teaching?

Everybody’s a teacher and everybody’s a student.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds that you plant. – Robert Louis Stevenson

Monday morning reminder – you reap what you sow.

Each week is a new opportunity to sow differently than last week.

We get to pick how we spend our time and resources.

If you don’t like what you are currently reaping then it’s time to sow differently. Plant new seeds in a different.

Different thoughts. New habits.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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https://youtu.be/OuFnpmGwg5k

(Another Taylor Swift song! Seriously Jake, what is your problem!)

Sorry….apparently we listen to too much T Swizzle at our house.

This song has been stuck in my head the last couple of Sundays at church.

And isn’t it just so pretty to think

All along there was some

Invisible string

Tying you to me?

My sincere wish each Sunday is that more of us might realize there is an invisible string tying us to our Creator. That He is pulling on that string. That He wants us close to Him. Forever.

In the song Taylor tells the stories of the ups and downs of coming together with her love. She describes moments and how they now make it clear that the two are tied together. Maybe the same is true of our relationship with our Heavenly Father? All these little details and moments – meant to bring us close to Him.

Make it a great day.

Jake

PS – This may not be well thought out, but I think of the string as love itself. Love is what ties us to each other and to God.

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Love begins by taking care of the closest ones – the ones at home. – Mother Teresa

Andy Stanley has a line that goes something like “do for one what you wish you could do for all”.

It’s easy to feel overwhelmed with all that life has coming at us. Work obligations. Family obligations. TV. Marketing. Social Media. Bible studies. Exercise. Junk food.

When I feel overwhelmed I try to focus on doing the next right thing.

Oftentimes that means showing love to the person in front of me.

Focus on those closest to. Think about what love would require of you. And then do that. Again and again.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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It’s always too early to quit. – Norman Vincent Peale

So much of the good stuff in life depends on our ability to see things through. To stick with it even when things aren’t easy.

This is a great reminder this time of year.

Don’t give up on your goals yet.

Even if you are behind, stick with it.

Even if you’ve fallen flat on your face, stick with it.

It’s always too early to quit.

Make it a great day.

Jake

PS – If you haven’t read any of Norman Vincent Peale’s books – you should!

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To sit in the shade on a fine day and look upon verdure is the most perfect refreshment. – Jane Austen

Summer is almost over. School will start. The leaves will turn. And the green of summer will be gone again.

I’ve come to believe that humans were made to sit. Just sit. In nature. Quietly and peacefully. Listening and watching. Breathing deeply.

Certainly not something I do a great job of, but something I’m realizing is important.

Make some time to get into nature this summer.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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To make us feel small in the right way is a function of art; men can only make us feel small in the wrong way. – E. M. Forster

It’s easy to get confused about where our self worth comes from.

To think it relies on others and can be bought, performed for or somehow “tricked” out of others.

I believe that God is our source of worth.

He created you with a specific purpose in mind.

To be of service in some special way.

And to love others and Him in the way that only you can.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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https://youtu.be/Ua3aNDJE_Cg

Now that I’m old, songs like this seem more relevant.

I’ll be looking back, wishing it could last forever

Oh, yesterday, seems so far away

One of the tips I’ve heard from other parents about parenting is the idea of not wishing away whatever stage the kids are in at the time.

Whether it be the “terrible twos” or the dreaded “teenage years” each season is something to cherish as part of the journey.

The same goes for our own lives.

Whether right now is that time when you were fat, in debt, depressed or otherwise unhappy with your results – it’s all part of the story.

The part where you are fit, debt free and full of joy are available and to be worked on and towards, but not at the expense of wishing away today.

Make it a great day.

Jake

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