Daily Attitude Email 05 04 23

The creation of a thousand forests is in one acorn. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

So much possibility lies inside each of us.

Like the acorn we have the possibility to expand and grow beyond ourselves.

Whether it be through our family, friends and relationships or knowledge and ideas we share, we can leave a legacy that goes beyond our wildest dreams.

As you look at what you are doing and working on, is it building a legacy you want to see?

Are you moving towards making the kind of impact you would like to make?

What might you do differently today if you were thinking of your legacy first?

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 05 03 23

Below is a good story about how the little things we do matter.

Your actions are being noticed every day. Let’s all use this as a reminder to make them count.

Make it a great day.

Jake

IT’S WHAT YOU SCATTER

I was at the corner grocery store buying some early potatoes… I noticed a small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily apprising a basket of freshly picked green peas.

I paid for my potatoes but was also drawn to the display of fresh green peas. I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes.

Pondering the peas, I couldn’t help overhearing the conversation between Mr. Miller (the store owner) and the ragged boy next to me.

‘Hello Barry, how are you today?’

‘H’lo, Mr. Miller. Fine, thank ya. Jus’ admirin’ them peas. They sure look good.’

‘They are good, Barry. How’s your Ma?’

‘Fine. Gittin’ stronger alla’ time.’

‘Good. Anything I can help you with?’

‘No, Sir. Jus’ admirin’ them peas. ”Would you like to take some home?’ asked Mr. Miller.

‘No, Sir. Got nuthin’ to pay for ’em with.’

‘Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?’

‘All I got’s my prize marble here.’

‘Is that right? Let me see it’, said Miller.

‘Here ’tis. She’s a dandy.’

‘I can see that. Hmm mmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for red. Do you have a red one like this at home?’ the store owner asked.

‘Not zackley but almost.’

‘Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way let me look at that red marble’. Mr. Miller told the boy.

‘Sure will. Thanks Mr. Miller.’

Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me.

With a smile she said, ‘There are two other boys like him in our community, all three are in very poor circumstances. Jim just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes, or whatever.

When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do, he decides he doesn’t like red after all and he sends them home with a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one, when they come on their next trip to the store.’

I left the store smiling to myself, impressed with this man. A short time later I moved to Colorado , but I never forgot the story of this man, the boys, and their bartering for marbles.

Several years went by, each more rapid than the previous one. Just recently I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community and while I was there learned that Mr. Miller had died.

They were having his visitation that evening and knowing my friends wanted to go, I agreed to accompany them. Upon arrival at the mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives of the deceased and to offer whatever words of comfort we could.

Ahead of us in line were three young men. One was in an army uniform and the other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and white shirts…all very professional looking. They approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed and smiling by her husband’s casket.

Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly with her and moved on to the casket. Her misty light blue eyes followed them as, one by one; each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket. Each left the mortuary awkwardly, wiping his eyes.

Our turn came to meet Mrs. Miller. I told her who I was and reminded her of the story from those many years ago and what she had told me about her husband’s bartering for marbles. With her eyes glistening, she took my hand and led me to the casket.

‘Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about. They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim ‘traded’ them. Now, at last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size…..they came to pay their debt.’

‘We’ve never had a great deal of the wealth of this world,’ she confided, ‘but right now, Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho ..’

With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased husband… Resting underneath were three exquisitely shined red marbles.

The Moral:

We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds. Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath.

Daily Attitude Email 05 02 23

Nobody who ever gave his best regretted it. – George Halas

Giving our best is a choice.

Doing less than or nothing seems easier at the time, but doesn’t seem to pan out.

The trick (if there is one) is in deciding what to give our best to.

It’s easy to get overwhelmed when thinking about all the possible opportunities for giving our best.

It’s in the choosing of the most important that we gain the clarity and direction needed for giving and being our best.

Notice also that is "giving" our best, not getting.

Giving is always a good place to start when looking for the best opportunity.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 05 01 23

People change and forget to tell each other. – Lillian Hellman

A constant of life is change.

The people in our lives are in a continous process of changing and so are we.

Relationships create the conduit for us to work through these changes together.

We can help the important people by encouraging their growth and change.

And we can encourage our own growth by talking through it with those we love.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Friday Morning Toe Tapper

https://youtu.be/3Xl0Qr0uXuY

I know I’ve sent this out before but we’ve been watching The Mandalorian lately and it’s put me in a Star Wars mood.

Stories like these tell the tale of good vs evil. Relationships that matter. Hope that never gives up. How doing the right things is always the right thing. Power and greed can ruin a human being (or aliens or whatever).

As we watch movies and read books we have an opportunity to develop our philosophy of how the world works and what good looks like.

We get to choose whether to agree with the creator or not. Whether to root for the bad guy or the good guy.

How and what you choose to adopt as your philosophy matters.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 04 27 23

Give yourself time to be sad, frustrated and angry. Give yourself time to heal, accept and to grow. Time doesn’t erase anything, but it can provide you with enough space to be able to breathe again. And then one day you wake up and your heart has a little bit of sunshine in it. – Jessica Jensen

Jim Rohn talks about how life needs all the musical notes.

The high notes and the low notes.

Only high notes sounds a little funny.

Only low sounds funny too.

Mix them together and you get something magical.

Finding our way through all of the highs and lows while keeping our head up is an art unto itself.

Keep your head up today.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 04 26 23

Do not imagine that if you meet a really humble man he will be what most people call ‘humble’ nowadays: he will not be a sort of greasy, smarmy person, who is always telling you that, of course, he is nobody. Probably all you will think about him is that he seemed a cheerful, intelligent chap who took a real interest in what you said to him. If you do dislike him it will be because you feel a little envious of anyone who seems to enjoy life so easily. He will not be thinking about humility: he will not be thinking about himself at all.

If anyone would like to acquire humility, I can, I think, tell him the first step. The first step is to realise that one is proud. And a biggish step, too. At least, nothing whatever can be done before it. If you think you are not conceited, it means you are very conceited indeed.

C.S. Lewis

Not much to add to this passage.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 04 25 23

Sweet mercy is nobility’s true badge. – William Shakespeare

I looked up the definition of mercy and found this – Mercy is the compassionate treatment of those in distress, especially when it is within one’s power to punish or harm them. The word “mercy” derives from the medieval Latin merced or merces, which means "price paid." It has the connotation of forgiveness, benevolence and kindness.

We’ve all been shown mercy at one point or another in our lives.

Showing mercy to others is something to practice.

In our interactions with our family, friends, coworkers and customers we have the opportunity to practice small moments of mercy daily.

To be compassionate and consider the “price paid” when we are owed something that isn’t given.

We practice the small stuff in case we are ever in a position to be merciful with something bigger. So that in that moment we have the opportunity to be noble.

Make it a great day.

Jake

PS – Couldn’t write an email about mercy without calling out the great mercy shown to us through Christ. We’ve been given the opportunity to live with him forever in heaven when we should be destined for hell. The price has been paid.

Daily Attitude Email 04 24 23

Try to be like the turtle – at ease in your own shell. – Bill Copeland

One of the balancing acts in life is learning to love yourself without thinking too much of yourself.

Internal self talk like – I’m not good enough, I’m too fat, I’m too dumb, nobody likes me, I don’t measure up, etc. do us more harm than good.

We can spiral ourselves into trouble simply by thinking those thoughts.

We must learn to be at ease in our own shell while striving to become the best version of ourselves.

SO THAT – we can be of service to others in love.

No so that we can feel better or be more comfortable or take it easy or not take responsibility for our actions.

Our end goal is humility and service, not pride and comfort.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Friday Morning Toe Tapper

https://youtu.be/VcjzHMhBtf0

Don’t stop believing.

We all reach a point with our goals and vision of the future where we are tempted to stop believing in our picture of the future.

Don’t.

Keep picturing that better future.

Write it down (again if you need to).

Rekindle those feelings you first had when you set the goal.

Get your mind back into that state of mind you had when first had when you were fired up and just getting started.

Make it a great day.

Jake