Daily Attitude Email 04 20 23

A “what if” questions that I try to ask myself….

What if it isn’t all about me?

What if the others aren’t thinking, judging, analyzing everything I do?

What if everyone else didn’t notice that I’m too ugly, smelly, dumb, smart, sweaty, left my fly open?

What if my role is to help and support those around me instead of the other way around?

What could I do to help if I wasn’t so worried about myself?

What if my life’s purpose was to serve others with love?

What if I trained myself to think of others first?

Make it a great day.

Jake

PS – Sorry to everyone for every time I’ve been too self-centered to ask myself these questions before our interactions. This idea is a continuous struggle that I get wrong more than right.

Daily Attitude Email 04 19 23

“When they have really learned to love their neighbours as themselves, they will be allowed to love themselves as their neighbours.” – C.S. Lewis, The Screwtape Letters

Meaghan and I listened to The Screwtape Letters on the way to Tennessee yesterday (I know….I sound like so much fun on a road trip).

It’s often spouted as advice to focus on self love and to love yourself first.

CS Lewis suggests something different. Learn to love others first.

In doing so we learn our own value and create space to love ourselves.

If your struggling, maybe a good place to start.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 04 18 23

We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all. – Eleanor Roosevelt

No risk, no reward. A truth of life that we can’t escape.

We get to decide what kind of person we want to be – do we want to care and risk vulnerability or not care and live with distance between us and others.

Sometimes distance is wise. Sometimes vulnerability is the way to do.

We have to choose. We don’t get to sit on the fence.

Choose wisely.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 04 17 23

You’re only here for a short visit. Don’t hurry, don’t worry. And be sure to smell the flowers along the way. – Walter Hagen

This is a great quote from a golfer.

Golf is a game of short bursts of intense concentration followed by lots of opportunities to complain or worry about the shot or enjoy the scenery.

In my old age I appreciate more and more the shortness of life.

We really aren’t here that long. We must choose wisely how we spend each day.

We must make the most of it – without hurrying or worrying.

Not easy, but worth it.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 04 13 23

Everybody talks about the weather, but nobody does anything about it. – Charles Dudley Warner

I thought this one was pretty funny….

We do tend to spend a lot of our time in life talking and worrying about things over which we have no control.

Next time you are tempted to complain or become anxious over the uncontrollables in life, think twice.

Think of this funny quote.

If you are not (or can’t) do anything about it, stop worrying and complaining. Start planning and doing the hard work to turn it into a positive.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 04 11 23

Let us put our minds together and see what life we can make for our children. – Sitting Bull

Stewardship is a key value at Mavidea and Maxlider.

Whether it be a client’s website, network or Bronco – we want to leave it better than we found it.

For them to be better off having interacted with us.

For this to happen, we have to think of someone other than ourselves. To somehow escape our own tendencies toward self-centeredness.

The most interesting thing to me about this is that right around the corner from this is our own joy. Our own success and growth are just out of sight beyond stewardship and other values like it.

Take the step of faith today to put others first.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 04 10 23

“I live in the Managerial Age, in a world of "Admin." The greatest evil is not now done in those sordid "dens of crime" that Dickens loved to paint. It is not done even in concentration camps and labour camps. In those we see its final result. But it is conceived and ordered (moved, seconded, carried, and minuted) in clean, carpeted, warmed and well-lighted offices, by quiet men with white collars and cut fingernails and smooth-shaven cheeks who do not need to raise their voices. Hence, naturally enough, my symbol for Hell is something like the bureaucracy of a police state or the office of a thoroughly nasty business concern."

[From the Preface]

― C.S. Lewis, The Screwtape Letters

In The Screwtape Letters, CS Lewis writes as Uncle Screwtape to his nephew Wormwood. The letters are his advice on life as a “tempter” or “demon” and how best to ruin the life of the “patient” he is assigned to.

This excerpt from the preface shows some of what CS Lewis thinks about the possible evil in our world.

He tells us what we should be wary of as modern office workers and business people. We’ve seen this happen in our society as some businesses have chosen to prioritize profits and shareholder value above all else. Many lives have been ruined “by quiet men with white collars and cut fingernails and smooth-shaven cheeks who do not need to raise their voices.” Many in our society are unhappy with their work and their workplace as a result.

Our opportunity lies in heading the other direction. To put people first. To consider what’s most important and to firmly plant those values above others.

We can create a workplace and business where people get filled up. Where they move closer to their best self. Where they move closer to God.

We can build relationships that lead to a life filled with meaning and purpose. Where value freely moves and all involved end up better for having been involved.

That seems worth getting out of bed in the morning to me.

Who’s in?

Make it a great day.

Jake

Friday Morning Toe Tapper

Resending the toe tapper from last year before Easter….

https://youtu.be/sIaT8Jl2zpI

You say I am loved when I can’t feel a thing

You say I am strong when I think I am weak

And you say I am held when I am falling short

And when I don’t belong, oh You say I am Yours

And I believe (I)

Oh, I believe (I)

What You say of me (I)

I believe

The only thing that matters now is everything You think of me

In You I find my worth, in You I find my identity

Easter is a reminder of what God really thinks of you.

He sent His son to die on the cross to set things right for you.

He looked across time and space and at all of your foibles, mistakes and selfishness and send His son to die for you.

I hope this thought brings you hope, peace and joy this Easter.

I hope that the cares and trials of this world melt away in the face of this awe-inspiring series of events.

I hope that you can let go of your insecurities and anxieties and give them all to your Father in heaven.

Happy Easter.

Jake