Daily Attitude Email 06 01 20

“Kindness is giving hope to those who think they are all alone in this world.” – RAKtivist

This year has been an interesting one so far. Lots of turmoil and anxiety.

Life is happening to all of us in a way that feels unfair and leave us all wondering what is going to happen next.

It’s easy to feel alone and worried in the face of all the uncertainty we are facing.

It’s also a great time to insert some kindness and grace.

To be kind to all we encounter in a way that shows love and builds hope for all.

Lean into kindness today. Give a little extra to those you encounter.

Change and growth happen one person at a time. Might as well start with us.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 05 28 20

One does not fall in love; one grows into love, and love grows in him. – Karl A. Menninger

Love is a choice.

It’s a conscious decision to put someone else’s wants and desires in front of yours. Consistently. Over time.

That’s what I thought of when I read this quote.

How can I better grow the love in me for others?

What choices can I make today to foster love?

If you get to the end and haven’t consistently grown the love for others in your life, you will be disappointed.

Love is hard.

Love hurts.

But the alternative is worse.

Choose love today. Choose growth.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 05 27 20

Get excited that you can make yourself do the little things that will change your life. – Jim Rohn

I once heard a talk from a former Navy SEAL talking about how motivation comes and goes. Feelings come and go. But discipline can be built and can always be there.

Jim Rohn shares the same message.

Discipline can be built.

One small step at a time.

Get excited about the opportunity to do the little things that will change your life.

Start little.

Build confidence.

Get a streak going.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 05 26 20

These fallen heroes represent the character of a nation who has a long history of patriotism and honor – and a nation who has fought many battles to keep our country free from threats of terror. Michael N. Castle

A nation of character with a long history of patriotism and honor.

Memorial Day was a reminder of those who have given their lives to defend and protect us, but it was also a reminder that we have something worth fighting for and protecting.

Our nation isn’t perfect.

But it is something special.

It is worth fighting for.

Today I am thankful for our history and for all those who have gone before us.

Let us all be reminded to do our best to build upon and honor the past by making the most of the time we have.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Friday Morning Toe Tapper

https://youtu.be/Eab_beh07HU

Wanted to start Memorial Day weekend off with some good vibrations.

I’ve thought a lot about the global tension and anxiety being felt and how when things finally make a turn we will all collectively sigh in relief.

Be a part of turning things around.

Put out some good vibrations this week.

Find some joy.

Laugh.

Relax a little.

Even if just for a moment.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 05 21 20

Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its joy. Leo Buscaglia

This is a quote that falls into the “reminder” category.

Most of us are well aware of the folly of worrying.

But we still do it….

So, reminder for today.

Don’t worry, you are only wasting the only time you really have – today.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 05 20 20

People need to be reminded more than they need to be instructed. Samuel Johnson

This quote reminds me of the daily attitude emails.

It reminds me that when you read this in the morning (I can just picture everyone anxiously looking at their inbox with anticipation every morning), you most likely already know more about what I am writing about than I do.

Hopefully I am providing a reminder of those things you already know.

I know this to be true because of some of the emails and comments I have received in response to daily attitude emails.

“Did you write that one for me?”

“That was just what I needed.”

“Thanks for the reminder this morning.”

As much as I would like to pretend that I am brilliant in writing these emails, they are really just my own version of some already existing concept.

And my sincere hope is that they can serve as a reminder or inspiration for you to move your life in a positive direction.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 05 19 20

Last week they sent out an 8th grade graduation video for Maggie’s school. In it they announced some award winners for the school and Maggie got the Shawn Twyford award for being positive and a good friend to all.

I’m sure this is just a proud dad moment, but if I could have picked an award for her to win it would have been that one.

Math is great, attendance is great, and sportsing is great, but I’m convinced that in the end the relationships and our attitude matter more.

But this isn’t an email just to brag about how awesome Maggie is.

The award was a reminder of all the awards that are easiest to chase in life.

Most money.

Best stuff.

Handsomest husband.

Best behaved children.

Looks the best in a swimsuit.

Coolest.

We get sucked into running around and chasing awards that maybe shouldn’t be on the top of our list.

What really matters is how much we have served others in love. How much of ourselves we have gladly given up for others. The relationships and love we have fostered.

What awards are you trying to win? What has your focus and attention?

Make it a great day.

Jake

PS – All of the made up awards above are not bad awards. Some might even be the most important to you right now, but make sure you are choosing them on purpose with purpose.

Daily Attitude Email 05 18 20

Found the list below in an old daily attitude emails and thought now might be a good time to share.

It’s corny….but maybe we need a little corny right now.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio

“To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me.

It is the most requested column I’ve ever written”.

“My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more”:

1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.

8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.

12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don’t worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ‘In five years, will this matter?’

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.

35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time.

42. You already have all you need.

43. The best is yet to come…

44. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift."