Author: jakedavis1910

Daily Attitude Email 03 27 17

“We are all a great deal luckier that we realize, we usually get what we want – or near enough.”

― Roald Dahl, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory

A great reminder to start off the week.

We all have quite a bit to be thankful for.

Maybe not everything has worked out the way we wanted, but it really isn’t too bad.

I would wager to say that if you are receiving this email you have at least one thing in your life that is going well.

Focus on something to be thankful for as you start this week.

And tell someone else about it.

Spread it around.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Friday Morning Toe Tapper

When Meaghan showed me this the other day, I knew it would be the Friday Morning Toe Tapper….

https://youtu.be/cyVzjoj96vs

Seriously, spend the 1:52 to listen to this, if it doesn’t make you smile you might want to crawl back into bed. I listened to it like 4 times…

What I Am.

Think about that. Part of being happy is realizing who you are and what you are capable of becoming.

Think about yourself while he sings the song, do any of the below fit you? I guarantee at least one does.

What I am is musical.

What I am is thoughtful.

What I am is friendly.

What I am is super.

What I am is magical.

What I am is smart.

And those are just the ones I caught…

There is only one you. It is up to you to try. It is up to you to reach high. You can do it. You can get stronger, smarter, faster, better; whatever you want.

Be the best you you can be.

Make it a great Friday and have a great weekend.

Jake

Originally sent a long time ago….

Daily Attitude Email 03 23 17

What Is A Dad?

A dad is someone who

wants to catch you before you fall

but instead picks you up,

brushes you off,

and lets you try again.

A dad is someone who

wants to keep you from making mistakes

but instead lets you find your own way,

even though his heart breaks in silence

when you get hurt.

A dad is someone who

holds you when you cry,

scolds you when you break the rules,

shines with pride when you succeed,

and has faith in you even when you fail…

– Unknown

I found this short little bit about dad’s in my search of something to send out today for my dad’s birthday.

I have often wondered and thought about how it was that my dad had so much patience with me over the years. I imagine all the conversations and all of the dumb stuff I did and said (and still do and still say) that must have been hard to listen to without slapping me or something like that.

Now, with kids of my own, I can almost see it. But not completely. My kids are much better than I am sure I was.

So, Happy Birthday, Dad. Thanks for everything you have done and continue to do.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Originally sent on 03 23 2015.

Daily Attitude Email 03 22 17

The most powerful weapon on earth is the human soul on fire. – Ferdinand Foch

Can you remember a time when you were on fire about someone or something?

Did you let small things get you down or did you press forward?

Did you wake up and drearily start your day?

Did you wait for things to come to you (impatiently)?

Probably not.

You moved right past the small stuff, not even noticing because you were so focused.

You woke up on fire and started thinking immediately about your goal.

You moved toward your desire relentlessly.

If you don’t have something you are on fire about right now, seek it out. Begin looking. Make finding that something your goal for now.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Originally sent 03 04 15

Daily Attitude Email 03 21 17

"Without momentum, even the smallest obstacle can prevent you from moving forward. But with it you can plow through anything." – John Maxwell

In the article where John Maxwell talks about momentum, he uses the example of a train. When just getting started, a train can actually be stopped by a one inch block on the track. When moving at full speed, a train will smash through almost anything.

Think about the areas in your life where you are struggling to get started. Maybe you just need to remove the small obstacle to get going.

Focus on a really small, really short term goal.

Once you do that, pick another one.

Keep up this process until you have some momentum. And then you will be unstoppable.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Originally published on 1 27 15

Daily Attitude Email 03 20 17

Success is looking for a good place to stay. – Jim Rohn

The Jim Rohn video from yesterday lead me to another and this little phrase from the next one caught my ear.

Imagine if you will “Success” as a person (I imagine someone walking around with a big “S” on a plain t-shirt) just walking around looking for a good place to stay.

It wonders around all day and night, but most people are too busy, too self-centered, too worried and preoccupied to even notice.

It moves along until it finds a good place to stay. Until it finds a home where it is comfortable.

I imagine the dramatic movie version to go kind of like this:

They start with someone working hard on self-improvement – exercising, reading, budgeting, serving, etc. Nobody really notices.

All the while “Success” is wandering the streets, getting turned away at every door.

Then finally, “Success” bumps into the hero of our story. He/she lets “Success” in. “Success” gets comfortable (I imagine scenes with “Success” in the bathtub, on the couch, napping, etc.) and things start happening.

That idea our hero had starts to take off.

The kids and wife come along and flourish.

The money and responsibility come in, but our hero doesn’t buckle under the pressure.

Some of the hero’s friends and family come over and run away immediately when they see “Success” has moved in.

Some of the hero’s friends and family come over and are fascinated with “Success” and begin to ask questions about why “Success” hasn’t come to their house. Some learn and get the visit. Some don’t and don’t.

Imagine yourself in this movie.

First, who plays you?

Second, which part do you play?

Make it a great day.

Jake

Originally posted on 06 23 15.

Daily Attitude Email 03 16 17

"The first step toward the solution of any problem is optimism." – John Baines

As we face the obstacles and challenges on the way to our goals our approach to them can make all the difference.

Approaching each problem with optimism makes finding the solutions and developing better plans much easier.

We must develop a sincere faith that it will all work out in the end.

Every missed exercise, impulse buy and bad meal choice becomes an opportunity for better planning and problem solving.

Our mistakes become problems to be solved, not confirmations of our failure.

Renew your faith and optimism about your plans and goals. It will work out for the best.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 03 15 17

Do the things you know, and you shall learn the truth you need to know. – Louisa May Alcott

Get started.

Sometimes we let “not knowing everything yet” be our excuse to not moving forward toward our goals.

Instead, we need to get started based on what we know and then learn and grow from there.

Get started moving more and eating less and worry about the details of dieting and exercise plans come later.

Get started on spending less and saving more and let the details of budgeting, retirement plans and investment ideas come later.

Get started organizing the mess in your bed room and worry about the details of cleaning up and organizing the whole house later.

Just get started and do what you know.

You will change plans and learn more and grow along the way, but only if you get started with what you know.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 03 14 17

Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other. – Rainer Maria Rilke

Any time we connect with someone we are showing them love.

I believe we were all born with a need to be connected to others (to love and be loved).

Each day and each interaction with someone else provides an opportunity for authentic and meaningful connection (love).

Whether it be connecting with the waitress over lunch or with our kids over dinner doesn’t matter. Each interaction is an opportunity for connection.

The connections differ, to be sure, but they are meaningful just the same.

Don’t miss out on an opportunity to connect.

Make it a great day.

Jake