Daily Attitude Email 10 22 12

“No one else “makes us angry.” We make ourselves angry when we surrender control of our attitude.” — Jim Rohn

We alone control our attitude and whether or not we stay positive.

We control whether that driver in front of us makes us angry.

We control whether or not we take that sarcastic comment and make it into more than it was.

We control whether or not our kids and their enthusiasm frustrate us or fascinate us.

Our attitude is the only thing we control, might as well make it a good one.

Make it a great day.

Jake

The Phrase that Pays

JM – I especially like how you turn into a giant rage monster. T. Stark

KJ – Happiness is not something you postpone for the future, it is something you design for the present. Jim Rohn

Eb- It was your cousin’s idea.

JS – Whaaah?

JW – Life is like a 10 speed bicycle – most of us have gears we never use. Charles Schultz (creator of the Peanuts)

JD – Many hands make light work. anonymous

I have been thinking of the “many hands make light work” quote a lot lately as we look at moving our office furniture around here at Mavidea.

Without the help of everyone the list of tasks almost seems insurmountable.

With the help of everyone it will be a week with some inconveniences.

The great thing about being involved with such a great group of people is that I get to see the truth to this quote every day. We accomplish mountains of work every day. Because we are working together.

Make it a great weekend.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 10 18 12

Are there McNuggets in heaven?

I thought about this the other night when Maggie was talking about eating her favorite foods in heaven.

I wondered to myself if there are or aren’t unhealthy foods, etc. in heaven.

Then I wondered if maybe heaven is no longer desiring McNuggets (or those other foods that might be bad for us).

We could speculate all day long about what is or isn’t in heaven or whether or not heaven even exists, but for today’s email I wanted to focus on the second half of my thought.

What if we could remove the desire for those bad habits in our lives?

What if we could remove the desire for those bad food choices?

What if we could remove the desire to feel more important than others?

What if we could remove the desire to always win an argument?

What if we could remove the desire to watch TV instead of exercise?

If we remove the motivation to make a choice that isn’t in our best interest this makes making the right choice so much easier.

Today, let’s take a new look at some of the choices we make and see if there isn’t a better way to look at them.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 10 17 12

A friend of mine posted the following on FaceBox this morning and since I didn’t watch the debates I asked if I could share it as the daily attitude email today.

“After watching the debate last night, it confirmed to me that regardless of who we elect to the White House it will not change who we are and what we become.

I find politics fascinating, but we are in charge of how we treat people, how we handle our finances, how we teach our children, how we help others, how we take the steps to grow and improve our lives, and what ultimately what legacy we will leave when we are gone.

No president has that control or ever will. I respect the office and its importance, but always remember that our personal actions will have much more significance than what any politician ever promises us.”

Brent Kelly

Thanks Brent for the wonderful thoughts and for allowing me to share with everyone.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 10 16 12

He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. – Matthew 5:45

I heard this verse yesterday and for some reason I saw it in a different light.

I used to always think this was a verse that explained “why do good things happen to bad people?” With “bad people” being people other than me, of course.

I realized yesterday that maybe I should look at it more as a reminder to count my blessings.

Despite myself and all the poor choices I have made, a lot of good things have happened to me in my life.

And I suspect you are in much the same situation. The sun and the rain (and rain in a positive in this context) come down for all of us, whether we deserve it or not.

Let’s take the time to be thankful for those good things that have happened in our lives.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude Email 10 15 12

First, thanks to all the guest daily attitude emailers. I always look forward to the emails that get sent out while I am away. I am very blessed to be around such a talented and creative group of people.

“I am still determined to be cheerful and happy, in whatever situation I may be; I have also learned from experience that the greater the part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances” – Martha Washington

Dispositions and circumstances. This seems to be a recurring theme throughout all of the “positive propaganda” I have read.

Our disposition and attitude determine our happiness, not our circumstances.

I think it is a recurring theme because it is something most of us struggle with. We struggle with the balance between facing the reality of our situation and whining and complaining about it.

And that is why I think we all need reminders. We have the opportunity every day to put on a positive disposition no matter the circumstances.

Let’s take advantage of that opportunity today.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Daily Attitude eMail 10.8.12

When I think of attitude, I can’t help but think of Napoleon Hill’s statement that “thoughts are things”.

Our thoughts are important. Our thoughts determine our feelings and our feelings influence our actions (Allport, 1985; Sorrentino & Higgins, 1986). Since our actions are how we engage the world around us we can see that our thoughts are important to putting smiles on faces.

Research in phycology suggests how our minds work:
• our minds can only hold a limited number of thoughts
• these thoughts can be categorized as either positive or negative
• positive and negative thoughts do not cohabitate well. In fact,
• negative thoughts breed more negative thoughts and
• positive thoughts breed more positive thoughts.

Think about how all these findings work together… Because our minds can only hold a limited number of thoughts and because of the way those thoughts interact (they multiply and compete for the state of the mind), our minds are either in a positive state or a negative state depending on our thoughts.

In putting smiles on faces it’s important that we do not let negative thoughts multiply and enslave our frame of mind. Instead we must identify negative thoughts quickly through reflection and combat them with positive thoughts, which will multiple, push out the negative thoughts, and reclaim a positive state of mind.

The first step is being aware of our thoughts and identifying them as positive or negative. It’s important to understand that not every disappointing thought is negative; rather the light in which it is viewed well determine its state. In getting past the vague fancy talk I’m not saying that we should push out the thought “If we touch the hot stove it will burn us”, while it’s disappointing – it’s a fact. To help you be aware of your thoughts remember the process: thoughts determine feelings and feelings influence actions. The trick is to catch negative thoughts before they turn into negative feelings and certainly before they turn into negative actions. So if you’re feeling a bit crummy or if you’re being a big jerk face, know it’s probably because your mind is in a negative frame due to a bunch of negative thoughts.

The second step is reclaiming your frame of mind to a positive state. The solution is simple in theory – start thinking positive thoughts, but we all know that’s easier said than done when we have our grumpy pants on. This might sound cliché but it’s a practice that works and has stood the test of time: to reclaim a positive state of mind count your blessings, if that doesn’t work look to the news for some perspective on how blessed you are, if that doesn’t work serve someone who is less fortunate than you. Maintaining a positive attitude takes commitment and it’s not always easy, but it’s in our control.

If this were a blog I ask a bunch of questions – but it’s not, so I won’t.

In the words of Mr. Jake “make it a great day”

Thanks for listening/reading 🙂

Michael Somers

Mavidea Technology Group

Putting Smiles on Faces (one thought at a time)

www.mavidea.com

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Office: 309-829-2000 x112

Toll Free: 888-898-8960

The Phrase That Pays

JS – Start where you stand and work with whatever tools you may have at your command and better tools will be found as you go along. Napoleon Hill

JW – The burden which is well born becomes light. Ovid

EB – You can observe a lot by watching. Yogi Berra

KJ – It’s ok to eat rice krispie treats for breakfast.

JD – It’s the little details that are vital. Little things make big things happen. – John Wooden

JM* – When you come to a fork in the road, take it. – Erik Barnlund

I didn’t pick a quote during our manager’s meeting and ran into Jason Lerblance in back before sending this out.

He was taking the recycling out. He reminded me of how lucky we are for all those little things that Jason (and the rest of you) do around here.

It isn’t in his job description. In fact, it is something he could just walk on by (I don’t even notice the recycling bins and whether they are full or not). But he doesn’t. He spends the couple of minutes to put it all together and take it out.

And while I certainly want to recognize Jason for his efforts, he isn’t the only one. I am sure everyone has their own “little thing” they do around the office (if you don’t have one, just pick something and get started) to help out and pitch in.

All these little things are part of how we build a culture and attitude of service to one another and to our clients.

John Wooden has it right. All those little things make big things happen.

Make it a great day.

Jake

Friday Morning Toe Tapper

http://youtu.be/-cHB3Rbz1OI

Since I am off all next week I thought I would send out a song that reminds me of vacation. This one reminds me of the beginning of “The Great Outdoors” one of my favorite vacation themed movies.

Here is the original preview, couldn’t resist sending this out:

http://youtu.be/jfFZYwNRKpc

While I am quite sure there will be a fair amount of sobbing since I am not going to be around next week, keep your heads up….it will only be a week.

On a serious note. Part of working with a great group of people is being able to go on vacation and know that everyone will continue to do the great job they always do when you are gone. What a positive note.

Have a great week next week.

Jake

PS Still looking for 2 more daily attitude email volunteers and someone to send out the Friday Morning Toe Tapper next week.